How to Give the Best Blowjob: Tips, Tricks & Sex Toys

How to Give the Best Blowjob: Tips, Tricks & Sex Toys

Want to know the secret to giving an epic BJ that’ll drive your partner mad with pleasure? Easy! Take the "job" out of blowjob and think of it as fun game you both can share instead. Once you’ve learned the simple steps to mastering a "mouthgasm", you can amp up the fun with an array of smart and sexy gadgets to enhance and upgrade the oral sensations to maximize your lover’s pleasure.

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1. Starting off

1. Starting off

Don’t rush into it. Begin by teasing, caressing, and stroking his shaft with your hands. It’s basically a handjob, but with a sweet promise of what lies ahead. Using a flavored lube or edible lotion will heighten the sensation. Try the "prayer" hand position to gently introduce your lips into the equation and build your lover’s anticipation with your hot, steamy breath.

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  • Eliminates friction for the smoothest touch
  • Ensures your experience is sleek and on fleek
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  • "Hugs" the penis, imitating the "prayer" position
  • Provides intense tightness with an open end for sweet lip teasing
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2. Just the tip

2. Just the tip

Now it’s time to get it wet. Flick your tongue around the head of the penis, insert just the tip, as you would with a lollipop. Watch out for the teeth! When you feel your partner’s enjoyment growing, apply more pressure and build arousal with the “lock” technique. As the “blower,” don’t forget to stay hydrated. Dry mouth is not sexy!

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  • Creates an element of surprise
  • Sharpens perceptions, making him super responsive
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  • Imitates the “lock” technique, focusing just on the tip
  • Sends powerful vibrations throughout the shaft, simultaneously teasing with the texture
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3. Get handy

3. Get handy

A perfect blowjob is a combination of a blowjob and a handjob. Keep that in mind, and a bottle of tasty lube at the ready. Grasp his shaft with your palm—or both, depending on his size. Stroke up and down as if your arms are extensions of your lips. If you’re feeling playful, try the “grapefruit” tactic to create a remarkable sensation for him and a fresh flavor for you.

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  • Adds a little “hum” to your fingertips for startling stimulation
  • Reinvents a handjob by jazzing up familiar moves with a buzz
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  • Even better than the “grapefruit”, this combines a robust buzz with intense stroking
  • Produces immensely powerful vibrations
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4. Twist and swirl

4. Twist and swirl

Don’t dive in deeper just yet! There are plenty of pleasures left to explore in the shallow end. Flick and swirl your tongue to tease the frenulum, the most sensitive part of the penis head. Push the tip of the penis against your cheek to create an illusion of penetration. Feel like he needs more action? Take the “tunnel.” Cover your upper teeth with your upper lip and your bottom teeth with your tongue and squeeze his shaft between them.

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  • Effortlessly holds on your cheek without distracting
  • Vibes up the silky softness of your lips, inducing intense stimulation for him
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  • Replicates the “tunnel” but boosts the action with delicate petals of inner texture
  • Creates a unique vibration pattern via the special air pressure sensor
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5. Going deeper

5. Going deeper

It’s time to go all in, but when striving to deep throat, remember to take it slow, using small incremental steps. (Gagging is not sexy.) Massage your throat to relax it, and breath deeply through your nose. It might not work flawlessly at first, but practice makes perfect. To spice up the splendor of his sensations, make some noise! The vibration of your vocal chords and moans of pleasure will take him to Seventh Heaven.

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  • Enhances the effects of your “deep throat” moves when pressed against your throat
  • Sends humming waves up and down penis when pressed at the base
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  • Creates an illusion of soft lips and throat for a full “deep throat” sensation
  • Features a silky soft, life-like material
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6. Ball Play

6. Ball Play

Get his balls in the game, too. Most guys love this, but be sure to ask first! The scrotum itself isn’t filled with fine-tuned nerve endings, but a gentle massage is almost always welcome. Take his testicles in the palm of your hand as you would a pair of zen balls, and use your mouth and tongue to tenderly caress and kiss the scrotum. You might try a few teasing pulls using with your lips, but remember, while the scrotum is less so, the inner testicles are extremely sensitive, and must be handled with loving care.

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  • Puts the balls in play for your orgasmic games, stretching the scrotum to increase pleasure
  • Pulls the muscle behind the scrotum, stimulating the perineum for added sensation
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  • Ups the sexy factor with the promise of bondage and “being dominated”
  • Brushes against his sensitive skin in a more exciting fashion than fingers alone
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7. Rusty trombone

7. Rusty trombone

Don’t hesitate to go 360° in your oral session. While rimming is a delightful practice on its own, it reaches new extremes of pleasure when paired with a handjob. It can be a little tricky to coordinate the choreography at first. Just pace yourself until you find the right rhythm, and don’t get too vigorous. Once you’ve synchronized the movements of your tongue and hands, he’ll dissolve in erotic bliss.

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  • Ensures full-scale stimulation for the ultimate “rusty trombone”
  • Increases arousal by stimulating the penis shaft
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  • Takes toy-less rimming techniques to the next level
  • Stimulates the backdoor with a set of rotating beads at the base
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8. P-leasure

8. P-leasure

The perineum is your magic button to his mind-blowing orgasm. Place lubricated fingers behind the scrotum at the base, and feel his muscles contract. Massaging the spot gently draws blood flow to his man parts, making for a wild erection. Think he wants to go a step further? Ask him! If he says yes, caress his rear end, and slip a finger inside his back door. Gently probe and prod. Once you find his prostate, you can treat him to the grandest O he’s ever had!

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  • Features a curved bulbous head designed to hit the P-spot directly
  • The large outer attachment provides an exquisite perineum massage

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