Is watching your partner masturbate a turn on for you?

Tessa Taboo Tessa Taboo
My husband says it turns him on that he knows that I masturbate on the nights he is at work, and he LOVES watching me do it too. And it goes both ways for us. What about you?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
I am a male, and I like to watch my partner masturbate.
72
I am a male, and it turns me on to know that he/she is masturbating, even if I'm not watching.
54
I am male, and my partner masturbating turns me off.
3
I am a female, and I like to watch my partner masturbate.
154
I am a female, and it turns me on to know that he/she is masturbating, even if I'm not watching.
98
I am female, and my partner masturbating turns me off.
7
I've never seen my partner masturbate.
27
Total votes: 415 (266 voters)
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11/13/2011
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authorzero authorzero
I'd definitely rather be involved in what's going on, but if we aren't together physically, I love knowing that she's masturbating or getting turned on.
11/13/2011
Tessa Taboo Tessa Taboo
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Originally posted by authorzero
I'd definitely rather be involved in what's going on, but if we aren't together physically, I love knowing that she's masturbating or getting turned on.
I agree, however, one of my favorite things is for us to just kind of 'make out' while we both masturbate, and then right after I come, he penetrates me and we have intercourse, and I have a gazillion more orgasms because it feels so good. However, I can't just lay there and masturbate in front of him... he either has to be doing it too, or he has to be kissing me or something, or I just won't get off.
11/13/2011
Peggi Peggi
I do like to watch, I actually get irritated when he tells me about him masturbating while I am at work because then I have to be there all turned on and can't even watch

Actually, he doesn't do it that often anymore, but he used to do it a LOT in front of me. Now, he mostly does it while I am at work lol.
11/13/2011
Elnoa Elnoa
I love to watch!
11/14/2011
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
I would absolutely love to watch - but she will not do it.
11/14/2011
poetprincess poetprincess
Quote:
Originally posted by Tessa Taboo
My husband says it turns him on that he knows that I masturbate on the nights he is at work, and he LOVES watching me do it too. And it goes both ways for us. What about you?
My current boyfriend still will not do that around me but my ex lover he was all down for anything..
11/14/2011
Tessa Taboo Tessa Taboo
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Originally posted by Gunsmoke
I would absolutely love to watch - but she will not do it.
I didn't used to either. I thought it was weird and awkward. I'm not sure how or when that changed. Self confidence helped though, I suppose.
11/14/2011
LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by Tessa Taboo
My husband says it turns him on that he knows that I masturbate on the nights he is at work, and he LOVES watching me do it too. And it goes both ways for us. What about you?
Yes, I love it!
11/14/2011
unfulfilled unfulfilled
He wont in front of me but we use my toys together
11/14/2011
ConnerJay ConnerJay
Absolutely I love to watch. I have a real hard time being watched when my partner is in the room...I tend to be needy and request assistance. Haha
11/14/2011
Moein Moein
Why does my wife masturbate while I set beside her !!!

We haven't tried it before, but I think it is just waste of time and not fun.
11/14/2011
married with children married with children
I find it a turn on.
11/15/2011
Destri Destri
We both love it! He loves to watch me, I love to watch him and we masturbate at the same time a lot....
11/15/2011
js250 js250
Quote:
Originally posted by Tessa Taboo
My husband says it turns him on that he knows that I masturbate on the nights he is at work, and he LOVES watching me do it too. And it goes both ways for us. What about you?
Same hear!! One of our favorite little hobbies.
11/15/2011
ijako9 ijako9
My wife never has but I think it would be fun to watch
11/15/2011
Liz2 Liz2
I love to watch but I do lend a hand sometimes.
11/15/2011
LAndJ LAndJ
I've only ever seen my partner do it once, but I think it's HOT. It makes me want on him right away. He thinks it's strange that I like it when he does it, but I bet he'd love for me to give him a show. Oddly, my partner doesn't masturbate alone that often (which I think is crazy for him not to).
11/16/2011
Sunshineamine Sunshineamine
It is totally hot, it is a turn on knowing that he does it too.
11/16/2011
salaciousrex salaciousrex
My guy and I both find it hot that the other one masturbates, whether it's alone, or when we're with each other.
11/16/2011
TheCleansing TheCleansing
Absolutely. Mutual is better.
11/16/2011
spnkegrl spnkegrl
I didn't vote. While I don't think it is a turn off, it doesn't turn me on either.
11/16/2011
eroticmutt eroticmutt
Quote:
Originally posted by Tessa Taboo
My husband says it turns him on that he knows that I masturbate on the nights he is at work, and he LOVES watching me do it too. And it goes both ways for us. What about you?
I haven't seen my partner masturbate in person but he has done it on video while we were apart and I love watching it
11/19/2011
MrFantasyMan MrFantasyMan
Quote:
Originally posted by Tessa Taboo
My husband says it turns him on that he knows that I masturbate on the nights he is at work, and he LOVES watching me do it too. And it goes both ways for us. What about you?
I would love to watch my partner masturbate and it would turn me on greatly. Unfortunately this hasn't happened yet. It would be a welcome addition to our lovemaking although I respect her views on this subject. I don't think she has ever touched herself or cares to address the issue of what has led her to feel this way. We have a great sex life which I believe could be better for both of us.
11/19/2011
SaMiKaY SaMiKaY
I get instantly wet at the thought of him masturbating. But he says it's awkward to do it in front of me so I usually sneak around the corner when I know he is doing it. I even bought him a pocket pussy to aid him and he said that made it worse lol.
11/19/2011
Ibegoodone Ibegoodone
Absolutely, positively a turn-on. Love the thought of it!
11/21/2011
PersonalAngel PersonalAngel
I love watching
11/21/2011
MstrSlvCouple MstrSlvCouple
Quote:
Originally posted by Tessa Taboo
My husband says it turns him on that he knows that I masturbate on the nights he is at work, and he LOVES watching me do it too. And it goes both ways for us. What about you?
My husband loves to watch me play with myself and my breasts and make myself cum. On the other hand, no pun intended, I do not really like watching him do it.
11/23/2011
Tripod95 Tripod95
Quote:
Originally posted by Tessa Taboo
My husband says it turns him on that he knows that I masturbate on the nights he is at work, and he LOVES watching me do it too. And it goes both ways for us. What about you?
I love watching and being watched.
12/14/2011
Lucky21 Lucky21
Oh, I love watching her, or even hearing about her.
12/16/2011
Total posts: 140
Unique posters: 130