Do you "just say no"?

Bignuf Bignuf
Is there any adult activity your lover wishes you would do with them, but you just plain will not? What is it and why do you "just say no"? Just wondering.
May 13, 7:55 am
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edeneve edeneve
I'm still waiting for him to pull ALL of his secrets out of his 'sexual bag'. it's been slow going, but I must say, quite fun!!!
May 13, 12:52 pm
Wicked Wahine Wicked Wahine
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
Is there any adult activity your lover wishes you would do with them, but you just plain will not? What is it and why do you "just say no"? Just wondering.
OK, I don't currently have a lover, nor have I had one in the past who asked for something I wouldn't want to do. If I am with someone, I'd likely want to try whatever they are interested in because I want to please them. So, I can only speculate, but there are things I will not do and one involves any kind of serious pain on my part. As for other stuff, I don't think I'd mind golden showers (I wouldn't get turned on though), but I will not even consider anything involving feces, vomit, or blood (unless it's menstrual blood), animals, children, unconsenting people, or paraphilic infantilism such as acting like a baby and wearing diapers and taking a bottle, etc., so someone can take care of you. Sploshing however, I am willing to consider, but it would not arouse me.

No piercing, no electrocuting, no asphyxiation and no extreme bondage where I can't move at all. (I've never done anything bondage before, but I don't think I'd like being restrained at all.) No sensory deprivation stuff, either. I am sure there are other activities I would not want to do that involve other paraphilias (just check out that list, ), but I can't imagine I would likely come across them. Then again, who knows what people are hiding? I am pretty open-minded, but I am more vanilla/mainstream than I thought after reading some of those listed paraphilias!
May 14, 4:01 am
Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by edeneve
I'm still waiting for him to pull ALL of his secrets out of his 'sexual bag'. it's been slow going, but I must say, quite fun!!!
Which has he pulled out???
May 14, 9:52 pm
Pete's Princess Pete's Princess
There is nothing that my husband would suggest that I would say no to. We are on the same page as far as what are absolute off limit things are. Besides, he could most likely sweet talk me into just about anything because I just love him so much.
May 15, 8:20 pm
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