Originally posted by
Mrs. Tickle and Giggle
I am trying to find a way to get my husband to TRY some sort of prostate stimulator. I am not really sure how he would respond to that, and I don't want to make him uncomfortable. How do you bring that up?
First, use the ULTIMATE anal toy, the ONLY one that has ever brought MY hubby to a real P spot orgasm, and one that won't cost you a PENNY. That is your finger.
Ask your guy if you mind "if you give him an ultimate, mind blowing orgasm stronger then he has ever had before". That is a good opener...and TRUE.
Then explain you want to suck on him while directly stimulating his prostate. RESEARCH IT...but it is simple. CLIP NAIL SHORT (or off), USE SUPER AMOUNT OF LUBE...then add more. GO SLOW...very slow, as HE says he is comfortable. (First time is best with him laying on his left side, probably), or on all fours, butt up, head on pillow. You can lay under him to give him oral, while pushing in finger...which should AIM TOWARD HIS BELLY BUTTON.
I know some woman use gloves, but I never had had ANY issue with "soiling". Just keep a pop up "WET ONES" dispenser at bedside.
AIM TOWARD BELLY BUTTON and you will feel walnut shape and textured object. RUB GENTLY. That is the prostate. Gives my hubby a 15 point orgasm on the 1 to 10 scale!!!
Anyway, if you feel comfortable doing it, opening the play with a bit of anal kissing and licking sure will loosen him up too. We both LOVE rimming, but 1. make sure no one has to go potty (empty bowels) and 2. SHOWER together first. Great idea. Get SUPER clean. Start anal play, even with a soapy finger on his tush.
Once he is used to YOUR FINGER, then you can work other toys into the anal play arena. That is how I learned, my hubby learned and it worked great for BOTH of us.