Is it ok to have toys shaped like porn stars' sex organs in a long-term relationship?

Shumway Shumway
Here's one for you married couples and life partners. I've been seeing a lot of toys on the site molded from porn stars' genitalia. I'm curious what people think about owning or their spouse owning one when in a long term relationship.
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Yes, It's OK because it's not the real thing.
139  (67%)
No, I don't like the idea of my spouse having a toy molded from a porn stars' genitals.
14  (7%)
I don't have a problem with it, but if my spouse did, I wouldn't own one.
39  (19%)
I don't have a problem with it, and if my spouse does that's just too bad for them.
7  (3%)
I'm undecided
7  (3%)
Total votes: 206
Poll is closed
12/16/2010
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Shumway Shumway
Oh, I forgot to mention.. I don't have a problem with it as it's not the real thing.. but if my wife didn't feel comfortable with me owning one after discussing the matter a great deal, I would respect her preference and not get one.
12/16/2010
DeliciousSurprise DeliciousSurprise
I don't have a problem with it, and if my partner is so bothered by the idea of me having a pornstar penis (or pussy, for that matter) in my toy box, then we're probably going to have a lot of relationship issues.
12/17/2010
UnknownGirl UnknownGirl
I would take a very insecure person to be jealous of a chunk of rubber/plastic/silicon e. And if they're that insecure about sex toys, there are most likely some larger issues at work that should probably be addressed.
12/17/2010
Shellz31 Shellz31
I'm single at the moment but haven't had a problem in the past. And my Master doesn't have an issue.

I agree with Oxygen99.
I have met a couple of guys who just didn't like any toys. I figured they probably felt that the toys may be able to satisfy more then they could. Wish people didn't think that way though.
The real deal is ALWAYS better - as long as the owner knows how to work it! Hehehe
12/17/2010
Lady Neshamah Lady Neshamah
it's just a toy. but if there is a problem with the SO, then it may be a good way to open up a much needed talk.
12/17/2010
Coralbell Coralbell
For me it has nothing to do with whether they are molded from someone or not. I don't like any realistic toys. They just creep me out. I wouldn't make a big deal out of it if they wanted to have one, but I would prefer for them not to have one.
12/17/2010
Kindred Kindred
I don't care for realistic toys either, but I have no problems with owning "porn star" genitalia. I suppose for some it adds to the fantasy, which is just that, a fantasy.
12/17/2010
ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
As long as the toy does not have a pulse, the wife could careless.
12/17/2010
STOPS HERE STOPS HERE
Ignorance is usually not accepted, I just bought my first toy like 4 months back, it was at another web store, the choices were poor, I don't remember any other Fleshlights at the time, so I picked this one, it is of a porn star, at the time, I really did not know any better, now I know that just about every porn star has a Fleshlight now, I voted that if my S/O had or has a problem, I would have no problem in getting rid of it!!
12/17/2010
Liz2 Liz2
Both of us are not into toys molded to porn stars' genitals. My b/f has the Fleshlight sleeve with the basic pussy lips, it works for him. My dils are mostly cocks w/o a named originator. Works for me!
12/17/2010
STOPS HERE STOPS HERE
I would just like to say, that I am older, that I have been in this way more shy, and was raised more old fashioned, I am in no way a prude, but with the 2 reasons, that I have stated, it has taken me some time to warm up to this idea, I just want to say, maybe it is not a big problem with men or women, so I might not just on the wagon of them having deep problems with insecurities, just my opinion though!!
12/17/2010
Raggedy Andie Raggedy Andie
I don't have a problem with it but if my husband didn't like that idea, I wouldn't have one until he was more comfortable with it. I personally don't own any right now but I would like to try some! I have a fanstasy about seeing him with another woman/man so it wouldn't make sense to not want him to use the ones shaped after porn stars or real people.
12/17/2010
Yoda Yoda
I'd rather not insult my wife with even presenting her with the idea.
12/17/2010
namelesschaos namelesschaos
I wouldn't have a problem with it it is just a piece of silicone, superskin, what ever material it is. If my partner had a problem with it it would probably be a time for a much need talk.
12/17/2010
P'Gell P'Gell
It's not real. It's a toy. If I had a John Holmes or Marco Banderas dil or vibe, (which I don't, mostly because most of them are poor materials) My Man wouldn't care. If he had a tube from a porn star (which he doesn't because he isn't really into masturbator tubes, but I am trying to talk him into it on occasion) it would make no difference to me.

It is a toy. It isn't a big deal.
12/17/2010
Alicia Alicia
Quote:
Originally posted by P'Gell
It's not real. It's a toy. If I had a John Holmes or Marco Banderas dil or vibe, (which I don't, mostly because most of them are poor materials) My Man wouldn't care. If he had a tube from a porn star (which he doesn't because he ... More
Exactly, I really don't understand why anyone would be pissed off about a toy.
12/17/2010
~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
It's all in the mind set. If you lust after these porn stars, then no it's not okay. If you just look at it for what it is, then it is totally okay. It goes the same for girls. If I wanted some other guys cock, real or in rubber, I would not find that appropriate to get.
12/17/2010
Lindz86 Lindz86
Quote:
Originally posted by ~LaUr3n~
It's all in the mind set. If you lust after these porn stars, then no it's not okay. If you just look at it for what it is, then it is totally okay. It goes the same for girls. If I wanted some other guys cock, real or in rubber, I would not ... More
Agreed. 110% agreed. Your comment concluded my "im undecided" vote Lauren
12/17/2010
darthkitt3n darthkitt3n
I don't think I'd really care at all, unless he preferred it way more than me.
12/18/2010
Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
Quote:
Originally posted by Shumway
Here's one for you married couples and life partners. I've been seeing a lot of toys on the site molded from porn stars' genitalia. I'm curious what people think about owning or their spouse owning one when in a long term relationship.
I have videos of porn stars...having their genitals completely removed from their bodies, personalities and such doesn't make it cheating. Having the warm, fleshy live genitals attached to the whole person is cheating (if my partners don't know, and agree to it first).
12/18/2010
MR Chickhabit MR Chickhabit
if you think its a problem, then its a problem, other people's opinions aren't really relevant.

having said that I personally could care less, some people are just sensitive.
12/18/2010
Shumway Shumway
Quote:
Originally posted by Yoda
I'd rather not insult my wife with even presenting her with the idea.
I felt I had to talk with my wife about it.. as a reviewer on here inevitably I'm going to be presented with the choice. In comparison there are a much smaller number of guy toys on here. Many of the masturbators are shaped like porn star genitals.
12/18/2010
Shumway Shumway
Quote:
Originally posted by MR Chickhabit
if you think its a problem, then its a problem, other people's opinions aren't really relevant.

having said that I personally could care less, some people are just sensitive.
I agree, It's all relative to the individual or couples' points of view.

I don't think it's really about sensitivity or not though, it's more to do with your first statement... it may be that the person who has a problem with it is not looking at it from all angles, as Airen said "having their genitals completely removed from their bodies, personalities and such doesn't make it cheating." Some though may only see it from the point of view that if it looks like real genitals, then it's as good as the real thing.
12/18/2010
rdytogo rdytogo
Quote:
Originally posted by Alicia
Exactly, I really don't understand why anyone would be pissed off about a toy.
This, it is just a toy, not the real thing so no big deal IMO.
12/18/2010
popples popples
I think it would be okay. It's part of a fantasy.
12/18/2010
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
No issue for us. We don't watch the porn. When looking for a new dildo we're looking at size, texture, quality etc - so we don't care if it's named after someone we don't know.
12/18/2010
hive83 hive83
Quote:
Originally posted by Shumway
Here's one for you married couples and life partners. I've been seeing a lot of toys on the site molded from porn stars' genitalia. I'm curious what people think about owning or their spouse owning one when in a long term relationship.
It's a toy if looks good & feel good why not. we have at least two.
12/18/2010
mrs.mckrakn mrs.mckrakn
i find it odd when it comes to a vagina, but i wouldnt be bothered
12/20/2010
gone77 gone77
For myself, I wouldn't care if my partner had such a toy. And I would question any partner who had a problem with my having one. I use realistic toys all the time and any long-term partner would know this, and I don't think a porn star's toy would make any difference. At least it shouldn't.
12/20/2010
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