I'd never fight just for make up sex. Sometimes, we just feel so bad after we fight, that we just have to hold each other and not
A few months ago, we had a nasty drag out bang up fight, and when we made up, both of us felt so bad, we tried to have "make up sex." The thing was, we were both still hurting, emotionally and neither one of us could come. (We even got the Hitachi out, which is something we rarely do just for sex.) We just lie there, feeling bad, trying to make it work and I finally said, "This isn't working. Let's just hold each other until later." We needed to wait until the smoke had cleared. Later, we laughed about it, "The night nobody could come." But, I hate to argue with him, although we're both very fiery people, it happens a lot.