I don't know if it was the size of it or my excitement about it that turned him off, but he does not want to try it with me. He has no issues with cock rings or me using my bullet vibe when we are intimate. He saw the disaapointed look on my face and said I shouldn't act as if I REALLY got this Hitachi for the both us. He says it looks likes a torture device from the 70s. I know it is not that big a deal, but I really wanted to try this with him, we have only been married a year but we have been a couple for 6. After 6 years, the sex can get a little stale, so I am trying to keep it spicy but he will not try anything new. No food, no sex in the kitchen or shower, living room or anywhere besides the damn bedroom.
Did anyone else get a reaction like this from a partner about a sex toy or anything new you wanted to try. He never comes up with ideas for sex, it is always me. If anyone has any suggestions or advice I would appreciate it very much. Feel free to share your story as well.