When Making Love do you do it with ....

UrNaughtyaAngel UrNaughtyaAngel
When you and your partner make love you know after a nice night out, or having a great time together watching tv or celebrating a anniversary or birthday to you Make Love with the ....
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Lights On ( I love to see their body and see their facial expression)
96
Lights Off ( its mysterious )
61
Dim Lights ( I like to be able to see something, make sure everything is all right )
143
Candle light ( not only is it romantic but the best way to really make love )
86
Other ( black light, a lamp with a color bulb, etc )
28
My lover and I don't care as long as we are making love we could have strobe lights all around us
108
Total votes: 522 (270 voters)
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03/12/2011
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Remigirl Remigirl
Depends on our mood really. We like to switch it up.
03/12/2011
PiratePrincess PiratePrincess
Usually with lights on. But thats generally because we get into it and forget about the lights.
03/12/2011
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Daylight or candle light - I hate the dark, I want to see my girl - and her parts!
03/12/2011
Coralbell Coralbell
With my first partner we always left the lights on and I never really minded or thought about it, but my current bf usually lights candles and I think it's really nice. I don't like total darkness.
03/12/2011
Tidwtrguy Tidwtrguy
Sometimes the dim light or candles are romantic but I like the lights on in general.
03/12/2011
Lucidity Lucidity
I have this lamp that I got at Ikea and it only gives off red light. It rocks for setting the mood, and at night, it's the perfect amount of light.
03/12/2011
BadassFatass BadassFatass
Strobe light sex...that's kind of a cool idea, lol.
03/12/2011
Alyjazz Alyjazz
hahah I like the last answer because my boyfriend JUST bought a strobe light yesterday and when he showed it to me he said "I think we need to have sex with this". Too funny!
03/12/2011
Kitt Katt Kitt Katt
I used to be really self-conscious about my body but my husband makes me feel very good about myself and he likes to see me when we are making love so we usually do it with dim lights or candlelight or a combination.
03/12/2011
Mz.GreenEyez Mz.GreenEyez
Haha...we have experienced the strobe light it's interesting and fun
03/15/2011
Naughty Student Naughty Student
We'll do all these options. I usually prefer to have a light on while my guy prefers very low lit rooms. I like the strobe light idea, sounds like wicked fun.
03/15/2011
ChicaPrize ChicaPrize
I prefer dim and candles he could care less.
03/15/2011
IrishLassie IrishLassie
We mostly do it with the lights off. I prefer that way, but we've had sex with the lights on, in the middle of the day. Although when we do scene play i actually like candlelight. Im not sure.
03/15/2011
SerenityRed SerenityRed
We don't have a set thing wit lighting. It just happens when it happens. So whatever the lights are doing at that moment is what they're doing!
03/16/2011
mama2007 mama2007
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Originally posted by ChicaPrize
I prefer dim and candles he could care less.
i keep lights off but if its during day on a weekend we keep lights on
03/16/2011
skunked skunked
Lights out
03/16/2011
UrNaughtyaAngel UrNaughtyaAngel
Quote:
Originally posted by Lucidity
I have this lamp that I got at Ikea and it only gives off red light. It rocks for setting the mood, and at night, it's the perfect amount of light.
Ooh thanks for posting the link. I love that its cheap. In college I think we either had a blue light bulb or a black light but it was nice.
03/16/2011
UrNaughtyaAngel UrNaughtyaAngel
Now that I think about it the strobe lights would be fun, while tipsy and with music.
03/16/2011
minifreak minifreak
I like it dark.
03/16/2011
joja joja
Usually we just leave the lights however they were, but we did use to have a red lava lamp that I quite liked. It set a really sexy atmosphere.
03/17/2011
Eden C. Eden C.
Lights on. I'm just afraid I'll accidentally elbow her in the nose or something.
03/17/2011
Skitlz Skitlz
Quote:
Originally posted by UrNaughtyaAngel
When you and your partner make love you know after a nice night out, or having a great time together watching tv or celebrating a anniversary or birthday to you Make Love with the ....
A little light from candle, or dimming lights.
03/17/2011
indiglo indiglo
I couldn't care less one way or the other! Although, with the lights on is kind of fun because you can see what's going on so very well.
03/17/2011
Eliza Eliza
I really want to try this strobe light idea now.
03/17/2011
P'Gell P'Gell
I like it dark or with a little candlelight. I am easily distracted and have a hard time with orgasm if the lights are on. One of the reasons I prefer long sessions and scenes at night. A quickie, where I most like am not going to come, is fine in daylight or with the lights on. But, if I am really going to get totally immersed in the experience, I want it dark.

My Man likes the light on sometimes. "I want to see you."

NOT a strobe light for me. I have migraines and I'd end up sick before we even got started. Although I liked strobing, before I made the connection.

I've never done it with a lava light on. We have two of them (they actually belong to two of our kids) Maybe I'll snatch one and see how it works out.

I do love making love just before dawn, sometimes with a nice massage with candle wax or oil before. A few times I've come just as the sun was coming up. Magical.
03/17/2011
Naughty Student Naughty Student
Quote:
Originally posted by P'Gell
I like it dark or with a little candlelight. I am easily distracted and have a hard time with orgasm if the lights are on. One of the reasons I prefer long sessions and scenes at night. A quickie, where I most like am not going to come, is fine in ... More
Tell us how it works out...you could do a 60's scene
03/17/2011
P'Gell P'Gell
Quote:
Originally posted by Naughty Student
Tell us how it works out...you could do a 60's scene
TOTALLY. My Man and I are old Dead Heads. I'm surprised we didn't think of doing it with a lava light before. We've certainly done a lot of other "Trippy" things while fucking.

FTR, having sex on acid is a waste. Of the sex and of the acid. (It's been YEARS since we did that.) I end up getting totally concerned with little details "OMG, look at your fingernail. Your fingernail is so freaking cool. OMG...." "I never noticed how weird your hair is, damn your head is big!" (I once laughed for nearly an hour about how large My Man's head appeared. He didn't find it amusing. Hell, it could have been only 4 minutes, who the hell knows?) or I end up laughing, or things get weird and body parts seem stretched or undulating at the wrong time.

That's in the past, though. Haven't touched that stuff in years.

But, a lava lamp. Hmmmm, I have an order coming in....some new massage oil.....I can't wait.
03/17/2011
DancerLove DancerLove
I love making love to my husband with the lights off or by candle light. It is so romantic and relaxing. He likes the lights on, but he's also not a romantic or sweet person.
03/17/2011
ninaspinkturtle ninaspinkturtle
Quote:
Originally posted by UrNaughtyaAngel
When you and your partner make love you know after a nice night out, or having a great time together watching tv or celebrating a anniversary or birthday to you Make Love with the ....
whatever takes less time
03/18/2011
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