Does anyone else find themselves rejecting the idea of falling in love?

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Does anyone else find themselves rejecting the idea of falling in love?

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Contributor: joiedejouets joiedejouets
When I was younger all I wanted was to fall in love, and now I'm just over it, and yet it still sneaks up on me - When I don't particularly want it.

Does anyone else have this problem? I have commitment issues I know this very well, however it would be nice to know I'm not the only one this happens to.
02/02/2013
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Contributor: deltalima deltalima
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Originally posted by joiedejouets
When I was younger all I wanted was to fall in love, and now I'm just over it, and yet it still sneaks up on me - When I don't particularly want it.

Does anyone else have this problem? I have commitment issues I know this very well, ... more
I'm the same. I feel like it's an idea that is more disappointing than hopeful.
02/03/2013
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
By my early 30s I had given up on love as well - but then I met the love of my life and have been madly in love for 23+ years.
02/03/2013
Contributor: js250 js250
I know that the idea of loving and living with or marrying someone has completely changed for me recently. I have always been secretly a bit jaded when it came to love but now am more in the open about it not being my thing anymore.
02/03/2013
Contributor: anonkitty anonkitty
I've always fight against it every step of the way. I'm a bit of a control freak. ;] The idea of being that dependent (even though rationally I know it doesn't necessarily have to mean that) scares me.
02/03/2013
Contributor: indiglo indiglo
I don't think it's all the strange or surprising to feel like that. I felt like that too, after a string of failed relationships. I just felt like I would probably be single forever, and I was 100% at peace with that idea. And there really is nothing wrong with feeling that way.

I did end up meeting someone after that who I now trust with my heart, but I was a very, very happy single person. I don't think there's anything wrong with being a happy single person.
02/03/2013