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so i've never ever done anything anal before. my boyfriend really wants to try it. i'm nervous, scared, excited all at the same time. but i have no idea where to begin help?
Begin with something much smaller than a penis! His fingers are good, but there also are some very thin plugs that Eden offers. The main idea is to get used to the sensation of having something up there.
After that, you can slowly work your way up. From his little finger to a lager one or from a smaller toy to a larger toy. You should only use toys with flared bases, also.
Just some advice, gloves and condoms are useful, especially because I've heard that sometimes back door play can get messy. Also, use TONS of lube! And if it hurts at any point, stop what you're going. Pain is your bodies way of telling you not to do that right then!