Now i ask this because i have had relationships with guys from small(under average) to realy big (painfully so). My husband now really is just right for me, he is just at the larger end of average maybe a tiny bit bigger. I dated a guy who had length and girth and it was almost too much for me. I like big toys but only if they are on the softer side. I just wanted to know how do all of you feel about size.