I'd like to get one of these to surprise my boyfriend. We both enjoy this sort of thing, glass is one of our favorite materials for toys, and either of us would be willing to use it on the other, or to be on the receiving end of it. I am deliberating between the Sweet Candy Cane Dildo, and The Candy Cane. I know that's what the Comparison is for, but everything is identical about them except for the weight; the Sweet Candy Cane is several ounces heavier. I suspect it is thicker, so I will likely go with that one. Thoughts anyone?