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Strap-on Dongs: Realistic or Not?

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Contributor: wrecklesswords wrecklesswords
I'm shopping for harnesses and dongs, either as a set or separate. My problem is that I don't want any that aren't realistic-looking. The ones that don't look like the real thing seem to be either too expensive, a material I'm not interested in, or a little too small.

Can anyone suggest any to me that my girlfriend and I might be more interested in? I'd really rather not spend more than $40 at the most for a dong, more than $50 for a harness, and more than $90 for a harness set.
09/09/2011
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Contributor: Spilock Spilock
There's a kit for Johnny that totals a little over 90, though it's not the greatest harness.

Alternatively, you can snag the Super when it goes back in stock, along with this harness (which is temporarily on sale!)

Also, if you can get these items as buyout assignments, then you can get 30% discounts. Otherwise, you might be able to find a coupon code from a member on here to get a 15% discount and ease the purchase price.

Good luck!
09/10/2011
Contributor: wrecklesswords wrecklesswords
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Originally posted by Spilock
There's a kit for Johnny that totals a little over 90, though it's not the greatest harness.

Alternatively, you can snag the Super when it goes back in stock, along with this harness (which is temporarily on sale!)

Also, if you ... more
I definitely just realized that I made a HUGE typo in my original post! I meant to say "I don't want one that is realistic-looking.'

But you were very helpful nonetheless. I didn't think about the buyout assignments option. It's been a VERY long time since I did any reviews for this site.
09/11/2011
Contributor: Spilock Spilock
Ah. Well in that case, there are a couple of options out there. The Silk Large by Tantus is a nice size non-realistic, but there's absolutely no texturing on it. There a few other options as well on EF, so I would recommend refining the search based on what you're looking for to find something at a decent price.
09/11/2011
Contributor: wrecklesswords wrecklesswords
I have definitely been looking at the Silk Large. I think the main thing is that we want to avoid it having a defined tip like the head of a penis. Even though I've been with men, and she's been with one, too, we just aren't excited about the idea of it looking too real.

Thank you so much
09/12/2011
Contributor: CherryDyke CherryDyke
Good info in this thread. It's hard to find realistic that is both safe and reasonably priced.
09/12/2011
Contributor: Spilock Spilock
It is pretty difficult to find a non-realistic in particular that's harness compatible and a good size. Harder than that to find one that distinctly lacks a head. There are a couple like the Echo that has a defined head, but also other details that make it very unrealistic; in this case, tons of ripples. But as for large clearly non-realistics, about the only options are the Silk Large and the Mantoy.

I personally wouldn't let the realism, or lack thereof, bother you too much. The important thing is whether or not it's a good size and whether the texture feels good. If you have to settle for a realistic though, you can always ease that by getting it in a decidedly non-realistic color, like a swirling purple.
09/13/2011
Contributor: wrecklesswords wrecklesswords
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Originally posted by Spilock
It is pretty difficult to find a non-realistic in particular that's harness compatible and a good size. Harder than that to find one that distinctly lacks a head. There are a couple like the Echo that has a defined head, but also other details ... more
You have a wonderful point with the colors. It is hard to find one that isn't realistic that is harness compatible.

The Echo actually looks like it might be okay. I added it to my wishlist. Hoping that when the lady wakes up I can show some options to her so we can narrow down our list.

Thanks!
09/13/2011