How To Choose The Best Strap-on Dildo

Even the most exclusive strap-on harness is nothing without a strap-on dildo. A good strap-on changes everything - so making the right choice is a big deal, and it determines whether your little session is going to end with a blast or not. Picking the ideal size and shape isn't easy, especially when it's your first attempt, so bet on the wit of this guide. We've gathered all the key info for you on how to pick the right strap-on and get passion-high with each thrust. Read on and enjoy every bit of it - doesn't matter if it's your first strap-on try or the tenth!

1What's The Perfect Size For A Strap-on Dildo?

Try more sizes. What makes wearing strap-on dildo so delightful is that you are not limited to just one size. When proper penetrative stimulation is at stake, a few more inches in length or girth can seal the deal, so don't hesitate to experiment with different sizes. Want that G-spot teased?

Pick something thicker. Want to give pegging a roll? Opt for longer and slimmer dongs as they are comfier and easier to navigate. When choosing the right strap-on dildo size you can stick to the same principles as you would when selecting a regular dildo. Dive in this guide to learn more about dildo sizes.

Make sure it fits. The one thing that you should always pay attention to is to make sure if the size of the harness system is compatible with the dildo you are going to buy. If you are using a harness with an O-ring system, keep in mind that the width of the dildo has to be smaller than the width of the O-ring to fit through it. Most O-rings are at least one and a quarter-inch wide, so always be sure to check the measurements of both the dong and the belt.

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2Perfect Shape Of A Strap-on Dildo

Whatever shaft shape you gravitate towards, remember that the base of the strap-on dildo should be flat, preferably even with balls - it makes the hold in the harness more secure. Realistic shapes with balls are good not only because of their sturdiness - it's the closest you can get to rocking a real dong during your bedroom play, and that fantasy is intoxicating. Plus it delivers a world of sensation to the receiver thanks to the pronounced veiny texture and an enlarged curved tip.

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If you are on the hunt for the fabled G-spot, stick to strap-on dildos with long, dramatically curved shafts and bulbous tips - they are like darts to G-spot's bullseye. The same shape works really well for targeting the prostate, as well. Another thing to mind is the weight - heavier dildos will be tougher to control and might sag. If you are adamant about a heavy load, pick a harness that'll be able to uphold it.

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3Best Features

Strapless Strap-on

No straps, no fuss, no limits. This strap-on shape is designed to please both the wearer and the one who is being penetrated, so a full win-win. The partner with a vagina can hold the shorter shaft with her pelvic floor muscles, guiding the longer shaft to penetrate the body of the other partner.

Either in a steamy girl-on-girl session or in a passionate pegging play, a strapless dildo contributes a ton to the intimacy between both lovers, creating a feeling of deep connection on both ends of the toy. That's a sex toy for those who want nothing to stand between them. Keep in mind though that one has to have a really toned pelvic floor to pull off thrusting with a strapless dildo.

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Hollow Strap-on

For a guy, a hollow strap-on opens up a whole world of new experiences. Want to treat your partner with a short and thick? You've got. Want to make it super long and textured? Whatever you want, buddy. A hollow strap-on is a ticket to a versatile, amped up, super long session with an everlasting hard-on that you both are going to enjoy. Just insert your penis into the hollow center of a strap-on shaft and thrust your partner as intensely and as long as you want to make them moan with delight.

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Dual Dildo Strap-on

To give or to receive - strap-ons often make us face that question. But not the dual dildo strap-ons, oh no. These sex toys have two shafts that can be enjoyed by both lovers simultaneously - one for the penetrator, one for the penetratee. Either it is intense stimulation of two G-spots or a G-spot and a P-spot - a grande unison finale is guaranteed.

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4Vibrating Options

Supercharged with a rumbling buzz, a vibrating strap-on dildo can turn up the pleasure of both partners. The secret is in the removable bullet that can be slipped into the harness so that it rests against the clitoris of a wearer, or it can be laid inside the dildo making it super-orgasmic for a receiver. Dual dildos often feature a bullet in each of the shafts so that both lovers would reach their climaxes simultaneously.

Many models have a control pad that allows you to circle through different vibration modes without stopping the game or asking your SO - a little surprise spur adds a lot to a BDSM-y kind of scene.

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5Perfect Strap-on Dildo For Pegging

Length

When choosing the first pegging dildo, many couples try to play safe and pick a smaller size, when in truth the length of your pegging dildo should be picked by a formula - your wanted dildo size + an inch or two more. Many forget about the gap between the pegger's thighs and the pegee's buttcheeks - and those extra inches close that gap, making your shallow nibbling into a full-on thrust.

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Girth

You may dig deep with longer willies right on your first session, but stretching for a girthier dildo will take time - and that's why it's the most fun. Girthy wangs grant a super fulfilling sensation, pushing all of the spots, making the pleasure overflow you. But not on the first try, oh no. Anything anal needs prep and lots and lots of lube, so take baby steps with slimmer dildos and move your way up in girth gradually.

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Design

Men who are only trying out pegging may be vulnerable to the style of the dildo that's being used, especially if it's a realistic dildo. Life-like designs may put pressure on the whole experience, and since many men don't associate prostate massage with getting it on with another dude, it might be better to strick to non-realistic models.

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6Extra Tips For Playing With Strap-on Dildo

Enjoy role-play. The great thing about indulging in your sexual fantasies is that it gives you a chance to enjoy, guilt-free, pleasures which you might consider taboo. Some fun and popular role-playing games you can play range from reversing roles to exploring alternate or even fictional personas.

Get esthetic pleasure. Good sex is not only about sharing orgasms - it's about sharing the energy. Wearing a strap-on has a powerful aesthetic and erotic appeal: the fact that you are the owner of a big beautiful and hard penis is super sexy and can become a springboard to full of passion and vibrancy sexual life.

Write a hot scenario. There are few better ways to experience the full gamut of sexual sensuality than by acting out a storyline, like a teacher/student or a delivery boy/girl scenario (we're sure you can think of some more original ideas on your own.) Sit down together and write down a hot script that will make you enjoy your strap-on play in the unique for your couple way.

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