I only have two at the moment, and it's really just wherever I end up tossing them.
Two weeks ago, it was an entirely different affair. As detailed in my article here:
No Need To Hide My Sexuality
, pretty much all the people who I even care about their opinion know I love toys and that I have dildos and such. I've fielded a lot of questions but honestly it is worth it. Friends and family are coming to me for advice and I don't worry about my stuff just sitting out now.