Thank you for the input. reading both of your comment we have had another look online and decided to go for the kevin dean realistic dildo. Now, I read that even thought its the same girth as the Sean Michaels it squeezes down upon insertion due to it being a Sil-a-gel.
Can either of you or anyone else on here confirm that or have an idea about sil-a-gel, does it squeeze down?
We are both looking forward to using this and she is now even more excited about the idea of being stretched. We just don't want it to be too painful for her or get irritated from any material.