Wouldn't bother me either. In fact, I'm interested in watching my husband use one. I offered to get him one from Eden and he refused though. He's not very open minded. Oh well, at least he doesn't restrict my toy usage.
I don't mind it unless I was wanting to have sex but I discovered they used their toy over me. I mean I am the one who bought it for when he was away but when you choose a toy over me then there is a problem. I understand self stimulation but when you have someone right there willing to do whatever you want yeah kinda upsets me
i bought my bf a fleshlight because he ased for it so i saved up my points for it and fso far he hasnt used it but once or twice the real test will be when i go back to college for the fall but i definatly dont like the fleshlights molded like pornstars vaginas
It doesn't bother me at all. He has a higher sex drive than I do, so they come in handy at times. We use them together sometimes. Either I'll use it on him or I'll watch him use it. We have used Maven tucked between my thighs when i/c wasn't possible. Like everything else we own, they are a tool to make our sex life more satisfying.