want to buy a bj simulator for my man - need guy's advice please!

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want to buy a bj simulator for my man - need guy's advice please!

hiswoman365 hiswoman365
Hi everyone! I’m thinking of getting this for my man in the event that he gets the urge when I’m not available. I enjoy serving his needs anytime I can ... but it’s always good to have a backup! My question fellas is - will the Fleshlight end up being my competition/replacemen t?? He tells me he loves my oral and I love giving it, but will "she" do such a good job on him that I’ll be "outta business" so to speak? lol Thanks!
05/25/2010
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Fred Petrenko Fred Petrenko
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Originally posted by hiswoman365
Hi everyone! I’m thinking of getting this for my man in the event that he gets the urge when I’m not available. I enjoy serving his needs anytime I can ... but it’s always good to have a backup! My question fellas is - will the Fleshlight end up ...
Fleshlight is good but not that good.
05/25/2010
Miss Cinnamon Miss Cinnamon
Sooo I'm not a guy. Heh. But there is a poll/thread that was started 2 weeks ago that could help assuage your fears=> link

This is how I see it: I have a pretty nice collection of sex toys. Some of them vibrate, some of them are curved, some of them have cute faces, etc. I love my sex toys. I love playing with them, too. But given a choice between spending a night with a toy versus my boyfriend? You can't cuddle with a dildo (well, you could, but it can't cuddle you back), nor can you engage in absolutely ridiculous pillow talk with it after the deed is done. I will, 100% of the time, choose my boyfriend over any toy.

And male-bodied peeps? Don't have nearly as many sex toys marketed towards them as women do. And last time I checked, a Fleshlight is a hunk of imitation pussy (or butt or mouth) in a can. Competition for a real woman? Hardly!
05/26/2010
Maxim Maxim
I think Fleshlight would be a great option - actually we will soon be offering a new Jenna Haze Mouth Fleshlight with a new swallow texture. Please check this link for other options - link. But I don't think you will ever be "outta business"!
05/26/2010
El-Jaro El-Jaro
I prefer the JackMaster. I haven't tried a Fleshlight, but I've used a couple knock offs.
05/26/2010
Liz2 Liz2
I bought the Tenga Flip Hole for my b/f, I liked it as it is overall easier to clean then the Fleshlight. He bought the Fleshlight and also loves it.
As far as being replaced by a toy? My toys initially intimidated my b/f but now he buys some and enjoys using them. Guess I couldn't see masturbation sleeves a threat as I use toys and I am not neglected by him.
05/26/2010
Gary Gary
Nothing I have ever experienced feels like the real thing, however, the Fliphole and the Fleshlight both feel Great!
05/26/2010
The Nakanas The Nakanas
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Originally posted by hiswoman365
Hi everyone! I’m thinking of getting this for my man in the event that he gets the urge when I’m not available. I enjoy serving his needs anytime I can ... but it’s always good to have a backup! My question fellas is - will the Fleshlight end up ...
If you don't want to spend the money on a fleshlight or Tenga, the Maven is a phenomenal toy that I use pretty often. Even if it feels like the best thing ever, there's plenty of aspects of a warm and willing mouth that no toy will ever replace, so don't worry about it!
05/31/2010
Jimbo Jones Jimbo Jones
In my opinion, a sleeve will never be able to replace the real thing.
That being said, Fleshlights do feel great and there are a lot of great inner textures available now that tempt me. Jenna Haze has a mouth opening with a unique "swallow" texture that would make for a great BJ backup. They are pretty pricey though. The Maven gets good reviews though and it is much less expensive so that sounds like a decent alternative like Nakana said.
05/31/2010
Gary Gary
The Maven gets mentioned a lot, I need to try one!
06/02/2010
El-Jaro El-Jaro
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Originally posted by Gary
The Maven gets mentioned a lot, I need to try one!
it kinda scares me actually. It looks like a big blue lamprey...could be fun though.
06/02/2010
The Nakanas The Nakanas
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Originally posted by El-Jaro
it kinda scares me actually. It looks like a big blue lamprey...could be fun though.
The look scared me a bit at first as well, since it either looks like you said a lamprey or a big blue traffic cone depending on the angle, but it's a phenomenal toy!
06/02/2010
Gary Gary
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Originally posted by The Nakanas
The look scared me a bit at first as well, since it either looks like you said a lamprey or a big blue traffic cone depending on the angle, but it's a phenomenal toy!
Either way, I will put it on my list!
06/03/2010
El-Jaro El-Jaro
Have you decided yet?
06/11/2010
redheadedperfection redheadedperfection
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Originally posted by El-Jaro
it kinda scares me actually. It looks like a big blue lamprey...could be fun though.
It's designed for bigger men, so if you fit that criteria, I would definitely suggest it!
08/10/2010
redheadedperfection redheadedperfection
Try the Super Head Honcho!
08/10/2010
B8trDude B8trDude
I haven't tried a fleshlight but the Flip Hole is INCREDIBLE - I've probably lost ten pounds in the past week from blowing so many huge loads with it Also, the packaging never mentioned that the Tenga also serves as a weight loss device.
08/10/2010
ScottA ScottA
Don't worry, there's really no way that a "BJ simulator" would ever replace the real thing. There's no toungue and no person who you care about attached to any of them (well, unless your partner's holding it).
08/10/2010
Gary Gary
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Originally posted by B8trDude
I haven't tried a fleshlight but the Flip Hole is INCREDIBLE - I've probably lost ten pounds in the past week from blowing so many huge loads with it Also, the packaging never mentioned that the Tenga also serves as a weight loss device.
Ha. Now that's enthusiasm!
08/10/2010
BigDaddy10 BigDaddy10
I have to agree with gary the real thing is good but i like the fleshlight.
08/11/2010
Yesenia Yesenia
I would buy the fleshlight or the fliphole
08/11/2010
Sera Sera
Quote:
Originally posted by hiswoman365
Hi everyone! I’m thinking of getting this for my man in the event that he gets the urge when I’m not available. I enjoy serving his needs anytime I can ... but it’s always good to have a backup! My question fellas is - will the Fleshlight end up ...
No, he'll always want you more, I guarantee it! You're his girl, after all! Do your sex toys replace him? Of course not! So don't worry!
08/11/2010
whubwa whubwa
the fleshlight tries to be more real or organic feeling. The Tenga Flip hole is totally unreal. Both are awesome, and use a stroking/thrusting motion to use.

Then there's the cobra libre, which would allow him to lay back and enjoy the ride.


Sex toys aren't meant to replace people... a human being is simple.. but it's the perfect combination of soo many things that a toy isn't gonna be like that. toys are awesome on a different level. It's the same thing with women and a vibrator. Sure it's fun, but you still want a man inside you!
10/05/2010
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