Should I even bother trying a cock ring when...

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Should I even bother trying a cock ring when...

Blinker Blinker
...my boyfriend considers 2 hours to be a "quickie"? He can last all night, and sometimes it's a pain in the ass (literally). I want Stoya's new vibrating cock ring with gold bullet, but wouldn't it just give my BF a robo-cock with no chance of stopping?
06/16/2010
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Ciao. Ciao.
Cock rings can make guys last longer, but they don't always, and they won't necessarily make 2 hour sex into 4 hours.

If you want a vibrating cock ring to try out, go for it! If you're looking for extra clitoral stimulation why not just use a hand held vibe while having sex? That'd be another option if you don't necessarily want to go the cock-ring route.

Also, if you're looking to have "faster" sessions in the bedroom you might want to see if (assuming your bf is open to the idea) something like anal stimulation for him would speed things up at all. A butt plug or prostate stimulating toy might be enough to get him to the edge faster. Just a thought!
06/16/2010
Blinker Blinker
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Originally posted by Ciao.
Cock rings can make guys last longer, but they don't always, and they won't necessarily make 2 hour sex into 4 hours.

If you want a vibrating cock ring to try out, go for it! If you're looking for extra clitoral stimulation why ...
Thanks! I just bought a bullet vibe and I'm waiting on it to arrive. He's close-minded to the idea of his butt being involved in any sex act, so...haha.

Also, we have a long distance thing going on. We live 300 miles apart and I think he's just used to the friction of his hand more than he is used to me. God that sounds terrible...but I think that's the case, lol.
06/16/2010
Ciao. Ciao.
Nothing wrong with any of that, I did the long distance thing with my fiancee for many years through college. Maybe just try and engage him in a conversation about things you can do to help. Maybe some more foreplay for him, maybe touching certain parts of his body, maybe something else entirely. Always good to have a healthy conversation about sex, especially if you don't get to engage in it too often!
06/16/2010
El-Jaro El-Jaro
A vibrating ring could work for both of you. The vibrations could be nice for you and might help him go faster!
06/16/2010
Miss Cinnamon Miss Cinnamon
Usually for a ring to really prolong an erection, you need to put it around both the shaft and the balls. We've always just put the ring around the shaft alone. You get the vibrations, and his erection may become slightly more engorged, but it won't extend his erection's...erm, "longevity" by a significant amount. That's just from my personal experience though
06/17/2010
BoomersGirl BoomersGirl
We use them because I "need" the clitoral stimulation. Hubby has no issues with sustaining erections without one and so far, none of them have made him last longer that without one. Even the ones with the two parts didn't make a difference for him.
06/17/2010
~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
Well if you are talking about a vibrating one, then yes there are ones that are not so tight.
06/28/2010
Owl Identified Owl Identified
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Originally posted by Miss Cinnamon
Usually for a ring to really prolong an erection, you need to put it around both the shaft and the balls. We've always just put the ring around the shaft alone. You get the vibrations, and his erection may become slightly more engorged, but it ...
I agree with this 100% and since the ring is jelly it should be able to stretch and fit around either cock and balls or just the cock as you desire.
06/28/2010
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