How to convince him to try a cock ring?

leilani leilani
my hubby is a bit scared of them.... but my thoughts are, why not try? if you dont like then that s it.... may like it... how do i convince him to try it once
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Fluke Fluke
I'm scared of them too. But they make stretchy ones so there shouldn't be much of a problem. I've never used them but people say they *can* lead to harder erections, better orgasms and longer sex.

Try looking at this one, it is super stretchy and made for beginners: Super Soft C Ring
01/12/2013
kendra30752 kendra30752
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Originally posted by leilani
my hubby is a bit scared of them.... but my thoughts are, why not try? if you dont like then that s it.... may like it... how do i convince him to try it once
Well, my advice would be don't pressure someone. If he does not want to try that, then try to understand. Cock rings really don't provide that much pleasure. I mean, there's nothing wrong with bringing it up a few times and seeing if he'd be willing to, but if it's something he seriously does not want to try, it should be left at that. I wouldn't want to be pressured into using something that scared me.

Anyways, have you tried with a different type of toy such as a fun clitoral toy you can use during sex instead of the ring? Maybe using something like a couple's toy such as Noa or We-Vibe would be more comfortable for him since he wouldn't have a scary tight ring on his penis. Then perhaps he'd be interested in trying a cock ring. What exactly makes him not want to use one? Just curious. Do you have one? If you have a cock ring and have presented it to him asking to use it and he turned down the offer, it's probably best to leave it at that. If you've simply talked about it, it may not hurt to go the extra step and get a cheap one to show him. Maybe he just needs to see and hold one in real life so it's not as intimidating.

On another hand though, he may actually have a real problem. Perhaps he's worried you're bored with his sex or worried you're only going to be satisfied with the little ring vibrator? You could try digging to see if that is the reason, and if so, I'm sure you could reassure him that that is not the case.

Best of luck!
01/12/2013
AmandaM AmandaM
My hubby was definitely against it for the longest time. I finally got him to try a ring out and he loved it!
01/12/2013
Dear Ruby Dear Ruby
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Originally posted by leilani
my hubby is a bit scared of them.... but my thoughts are, why not try? if you dont like then that s it.... may like it... how do i convince him to try it once
Really, I wouldn't know what's not to try. Have you tried asking him, and insisting on specificity?
01/31/2013
Scythe Scythe
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Originally posted by leilani
my hubby is a bit scared of them.... but my thoughts are, why not try? if you dont like then that s it.... may like it... how do i convince him to try it once
Two things that may make him change his mind are lasting longer than usual and more intense orgasms.
05/13/2013
Woman China Woman China
I'd be a little nervous too if I were a man. I mean all the horror stories!!! Not to mention, something tight wrapped around my junk would freak me out a little.

But then again... I have tried many things because a man likes them. So fair is fair. Sounds silly I know, the first time I tried nipple clamps I was freaked, same with anal. But I pushed ahead because a man wanted it. So I would expect nothing less from a man who wanted me to try new things, I would expect him to try something new as well.
05/13/2013
Hummingbird Hummingbird
We tried the free one first, that was the best start for us.
05/13/2013
snowminx snowminx
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Originally posted by Hummingbird
We tried the free one first, that was the best start for us.
I would also suggest this. It's really stretchy and doesn't have any odd things on it so I didn't find the look of it scary at all. Why does he find them scary anyways?
05/21/2013
luv 2 sex luv 2 sex
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Originally posted by leilani
my hubby is a bit scared of them.... but my thoughts are, why not try? if you dont like then that s it.... may like it... how do i convince him to try it once
My hubby did not agree at first either but we sat down together to find one that we both thought would be a good fit all the way around. That made it a little easier on the lets try it process.
06/05/2013
Ayogirl230 Ayogirl230
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Originally posted by leilani
my hubby is a bit scared of them.... but my thoughts are, why not try? if you dont like then that s it.... may like it... how do i convince him to try it once
why is he scared? maybe openly discuss his fears to soothe his mind and introduce it slowly. He will love it once he tries it- guranteed. i had the same problems with my bf when i first started introducing toys.
07/18/2013
Thong man Thong man
I would suggest just buying a soft one and ask him to give it a shot. You may be surprised.
08/14/2013
Basalt Basalt
I definitely recommend starting with some sort of stretchy ring. You don't say what he's afraid of, but there should be no issues with stretchy rings that can be removed easily or cut off with scissors even easier.

The jelly ones are super stretchy and not as tight, but may be a good place to start. Many are really cheap and essentially disposable. Longer-term I would recommend a silicone ring, which are still easy to remove but much stiffer and tighter.

You can read my review of the Tantus silicone ring I tried (see my profile). I liked the quality and price of the ring, but ultimately decided I didn't like the feel of any rings. But I'm glad I tried.

There are a lot of other good opinions on this thread too. Let us know if he tries one and what you both think!
08/16/2013
packingabiggun packingabiggun
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Originally posted by leilani
my hubby is a bit scared of them.... but my thoughts are, why not try? if you dont like then that s it.... may like it... how do i convince him to try it once
What is he scared of?
09/02/2013
Jake69 Jake69
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Originally posted by leilani
my hubby is a bit scared of them.... but my thoughts are, why not try? if you dont like then that s it.... may like it... how do i convince him to try it once
I just bought one because my wife LOVES the way my cock looks with it on. I bought one with a ring around my cock and balls. It made me very hard, and gave me a very intense orgasm.My wife loved it!!! Nothing to be scared about,
09/04/2013
Oriental husband and wife Oriental husband and wife
I got one free a long time ago and didn't even remember having it. It's a little squishy black rubber thing with nubs. I used it last year and boy, remembered why I don't use it often. Wife other day suggested I use one, says I'm getting softer with age. So I trimmed some hairs today and will give it a try for her. If it is good I may shop and research for a better one.
09/04/2013
cmm cmm
Go for a rigid one!
09/04/2013
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