I think I'm kind of looking at the smaller vibrators. Noise isn't a huge concern, although our daughter is in the room next to ours (age 11) so we don't want something too noisy. I'd like something that offers muliple speeds and/or functions so I have a powerful enough (but not too intense) setting to pick from for the sensitive clitoral area, but powerful enough for full-body type massage. I'd also like something that offers attachments.
So here are my questions:
Which massager would you recommend and why?
How noisy is it?
What attachments would you recommend? (keeping in mind I generally don't use insertable toys for that purpose - I prefer clitoral stimulation - esp. if it can be used DURING intercourse without getting in the way too much)
Thanks for your help!