My husband and I have been married for 28 years and we both have went through spells of high and low sex drive. With a family and work, there were many days we were just too tired or stressed. Now that the kids are grown, and hubby is getting ready to retire, we seem to be at our highest drive ever. I think we appreciate each other and try not to take each other for granted. But, even during low times, we were supportive of each other and made it through those times.