A lot of us here are pretty well sexually compatible with our current partners (some anyway) but it always seems like one is a little edgier than the other. Who is kinkier, you or your partner? And is the one answering, the man or the woman, and are you in a Hetero or Gay partnership? Or other?
Please choose ONE from 1 through 5 AND ONE from 6 through 14.
I have a theory, but I'm not saying until results are in.
This was actually hard for me to answer. I'm more obviously kinkier than my husband..but I think deep down he's very kinky and he's never minded any of the kinky acts we've done..he just doesn't seek them out as much as I do.
As far as what we do and how we play, we're pretty equal. But as far as fantasies go, or how far he would like to take it sometimes, my hubby is much kinkier than I am.
This was actually hard for me to answer. I'm more obviously kinkier than my husband..but I think deep down he's very kinky and he's never minded any of the kinky acts we've done..he just doesn't seek them out as much as I do.
I feel the same way....I think my man is actually pretty kinky because he's up for everything I suggest, but he's just not used to being able to voice it yet...time will tell
I'm slightly more kinkier than my guy, but only because I'm the one who buys the equipment and I talk about my kinky fantasies like every day. He's shy, but once his kink comes out, it comes out with a vengeance!
I would say my hubby is definitely kinkier! I will do pretty much anything or try anything, but he has done and will still do some of the kinkiest things! LOL
I'd say my boyfriend and I are about the same, kink-wise. Though he has much more experience than me (he's essentially my first everything), so he's the one to actually voice/bring up things to do, but I'm always up for it and it's usually something I've wanted to try anyway. We're extremely sexually compatible; I totally lucked out finding him :]
As far as what we do and how we play, we're pretty equal. But as far as fantasies go, or how far he would like to take it sometimes, my hubby is much kinkier than I am.
I'm female (duh - the avatar kinda gives that away methinks) and I'm definitely the kinkier one of us. I don't rank myself as very kinky, just a bit kinkier than he.
This was actually hard for me to answer. I'm more obviously kinkier than my husband..but I think deep down he's very kinky and he's never minded any of the kinky acts we've done..he just doesn't seek them out as much as I do.
Same for me just reversed. I am the kinky one but think she has kinky thoughts that I do not know about.
Okay, so my votes are confusing. I voted that I am kinkier, AND that we are about the same.
How is that possible? Well, I think about it more (or so I feel like) and am much more actively interested. Not to mention I crave it more. However, he likes it just as much as I do, and is pretty much as depravely kinky as I am. When he gets stressed the kink for him needs to fade a bit (at least bdsm wise) because he has anger management issues and continuing to play under those circumstances could lead to bad hurty things.
My guys have their kinks but in terms of broad scope I am the kinkiest out of us three. It took a long time for me to get to the point where I felt confident enough to express this side of my personality.
My partner is by far the more romantic one and I'm the kinkier one. But I keep things pretty vanilla for his enjoyment. Early on in our relationship, I tried some things that ended up making me feel silly and awkward, so I put them away. Lately he's been a little more open-minded. It's kind of a project of ours to get my sex drive back to where it used to be. Trying new toys has helped a bit. I have found something that pleased me quite a bit fairly recently--he didn't think he got off on such actions, but it started becoming obvious to me that he likes spanking me, restraining me. So I'm thinking about easing him into paddles (ones that don't make him feel too bad about smacking me!), and some cutesy restraints. And we'll see where that takes us.
Both of us are in the same level of kinkiness. There are some things that we will never do, but there are some things that we have agreed to try. We have similar ideals when it comes down to being kinky.
I am in dyer need of some coffee here, but as I was looking through the forum threads I had to do a double take as I read "Who is Kinkier? You are your parents?" I thought you all might get a chuckle out of that.
I am in dyer need of some coffee here, but as I was looking through the forum threads I had to do a double take as I read "Who is Kinkier? You are your parents?" I thought you all might get a chuckle out of that.
That would be one of those threads that you don't WANT to click on, but do anyway. No way I'd want to know....
My girlfriend is quite kinky, but she's less specific than I am, I have a bunch of very weird, very specific kinks where's she's just like "I'm happy as long as I'm on top"
