My boyfriend seems put off even when I talk about using my sex toys alone and I have no idea how to make them seem non-threatening? There's so many things I'd like to try with him but I don't know how to introduce him to the possibilities? Mainly, I'm wondering more about toys made specifically for men because I know nothing about those. I think if I were to get one of those and show him that first, he'd be on board with trying more things. So....any suggestions? I don't wanna scare him away but I don't want to have a vanilla sex life, either!