How Do I Get My Boyfriend To Want To Bring Toys Into Our Sex Life?

angelcrossmarie1 angelcrossmarie1
My boyfriend seems put off even when I talk about using my sex toys alone and I have no idea how to make them seem non-threatening? There's so many things I'd like to try with him but I don't know how to introduce him to the possibilities? Mainly, I'm wondering more about toys made specifically for men because I know nothing about those. I think if I were to get one of those and show him that first, he'd be on board with trying more things. So....any suggestions? I don't wanna scare him away but I don't want to have a vanilla sex life, either!
03/12/2013
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Taylor Taylor
When I was with my ex, once he realized that they are really like tools that make the job easier he was on board. He figured out that the times we don't use toys I might have one orgasm, but with the toys and not any extra effort I would have a lot more. He never was much into masturbators or toys for men though we tried them a few times.
03/12/2013
RonLee RonLee
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Originally posted by Taylor
When I was with my ex, once he realized that they are really like tools that make the job easier he was on board. He figured out that the times we don't use toys I might have one orgasm, but with the toys and not any extra effort I would have a ... More
Very nicely put Taylor!
03/12/2013
married with children married with children
I would say to talk to him and try to find out why he does not want to talk about them. If that does not work, just bring in some non threatening toys.
03/12/2013
angelcrossmarie1 angelcrossmarie1
i never thought of telling him how it would make things easier on him. XD maybe that will help! although, the way he makes out, HE likes to be the one pleasuring me and I feel like he feels threatened by something else giving me pleasure....I will just have to talk to him. ^.^ Thanks guys.
03/13/2013
bayosgirl bayosgirl
Yep, communication is key. It seems like this is actually pretty common among guys: they feel threatened by toys. Maybe start out with something like a cock ring, that way he feels he is part of pleasuring you? I know my guy loves our cock ring. Good luck! I hope he comes around.
03/13/2013
Husband and Wife Husband and Wife
Just be open and honest, my wife and I did that and now we play with types of toys.. It has really spiced up the bedroom..
07/11/2013
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