Who initiates sex more? You or your partner?

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Who initiates sex more? You or your partner?

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Contributor: Mylo Mylo
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Originally posted by xoxoxoxo
Just wanted to know.
I would say I do only because my husband is really good about not wanting to push me into sex. It's not that he doesn't want it...more just he knows I will initiate it when I am ready to
11/28/2012
Contributor: burtnuh burtnuh
It's hard to say, but I'd say me. Small things like like doing laundry together and things like that always turn into me starting stuff. I just love being around him. :3
11/30/2012
Contributor: nikki0668 nikki0668
Both partner and I are equally initiating sex.
11/30/2012
Contributor: table38792 table38792
It's usually me (male).
11/30/2012
Contributor: xcapricax xcapricax
Me im the horny one here.
12/23/2012
Contributor: deltalima deltalima
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Originally posted by xoxoxoxo
Just wanted to know.
I probably do.
01/04/2013
Contributor: FLIPxMODE FLIPxMODE
i do
01/04/2013
Contributor: LuckyLady LuckyLady
it's always me.
01/04/2013
Contributor: Beautiful-Disaster Beautiful-Disaster
both.
01/04/2013
Contributor: Erin Edwards Erin Edwards
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Originally posted by Angelica
He does because he doesn't want it that often so I stopped trying and being let down and just let him initiate when he wants sex.
I definitely understand that feeling. It's mildly annoying at the same time too. I initiate 9 times out of ten. Usually he says no. There was a long time there that I just stopped because he always said no. Eventually he realized and we made up!
01/04/2013
Contributor: Mrs.Tee Mrs.Tee
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Originally posted by xoxoxoxo
Just wanted to know.
My boyfriend does
01/04/2013
Contributor: falalena falalena
Quote:
Originally posted by xoxoxoxo
Just wanted to know.
i initiate sex daily, but i dont always succeed.
01/09/2013
Contributor: jaynimal jaynimal
Quote:
Originally posted by xoxoxoxo
Just wanted to know.
Iususally initiate but i love an aggressive woman!
01/12/2013
Contributor: FunFantasys FunFantasys
Quote:
Originally posted by xoxoxoxo
Just wanted to know.
She's horny all the time
01/31/2013
Contributor: LoooveMonkey LoooveMonkey
Me all the freakin' time because my sex drive is a lot higher than his.
02/01/2013
Contributor: Geography Geography
Both of us are pretty good at initiating. We both initiate more at different times of days. That sounded odd.
02/16/2013
Contributor: souviet souviet
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Originally posted by xoxoxoxo
Just wanted to know.
Me.
02/16/2013
Contributor: Ayogirl230 Ayogirl230
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Originally posted by Entropy
Me/Male, and if I don't initiate for some reason, she does.
agreed
02/17/2013
Contributor: angelcrossmarie1 angelcrossmarie1
Me! But I'm thinking I might stop and let him do it more.
03/13/2013
Contributor: Meido Meido
I feel it's generally even but I think I tend to initiate a little more.
03/13/2013
Contributor: nann nann
We split it. When it is her idea it is usually a little hotter.
04/12/2013
Contributor: meitman meitman
I think my drive is a little higher than hers.
04/16/2013
Contributor: Nezzie13 Nezzie13
Mostly me since I initiate sex without realizing it. We get all snuggly and my hands start roaming, which turns us both on. And thus the magic begins.
04/16/2013
Contributor: vittmsk vittmsk
Both
05/04/2013
Contributor: luv 2 sex luv 2 sex
Definitely my hubby but I think that has a lot to do with the fact that he is a stay at home dad and I work six days a week so he really needs to get me going.
05/06/2013
Contributor: xgreatlovex xgreatlovex
he wants it more but never starts it! IDK?!
05/13/2013
Contributor: talon4196 talon4196
She does. She has a higher sex drive.
05/13/2013
Contributor: JADE76 JADE76
Quote:
Originally posted by xoxoxoxo
Just wanted to know.
mostly me if I don't initiate sex he is asking why
05/14/2013
Contributor: surreptitious surreptitious
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Originally posted by xoxoxoxo
Just wanted to know.
Thusfar, it has been me, but that's because my partner is much more cautious and we've always shared lodgings with a roommate. I think that if we lived alone, we'd be about equal in initiation.
05/14/2013
Contributor: chicmichiw chicmichiw
Right now, pretty equal. It's hot to both reach for and be reached for!
05/14/2013