Sue both! Yikes! Lol. Do you mean use both?
Yes, I really only use my toys with my partner. I'll use them, he'll take over and use them on me and we just go from there. I think it's more fun that way. I rarely just go all solo because usually if I'm in the mood to use a toy, I'm definitely going to be in the mood for real sex. Toys won't cut it all the way for me.