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were you clueless during your first sexual experience or did you try to learn some techniques beforehand
I don't know if I can say I was clueless. The funny thing is masturbation kind of allows you learn how to control your orgasm if you do it enough. And although I had not really done it that much I had an of what was going to happen so I had an idea. The truth is though for a guy, the first time you actually feel a woman's body there really isn't anything to prepare you for how good that feels. So truthfully there really isn't a way for a guy to go in prepared.
My first time was with a girl who knew it was my first time so she made no bones about making me cum right away and saying lets go again 5 minutes later. I mean lets face it ladies you know if its our first time we just cant put up a decent fight LOL. (She had mercy upon me) As the next two days went on I kind of learned the ropes.
I was really lucky, I was with a friend turned lover that basically planned to have sex with me and watch movies for the whole weekend. I went from zero experience on friday to leaving that Sunday dehydrated, relaxed and sore. (Every guy should be so lucky!)
The funny part of all of it was that she says even to this day that I initiated it and I insist that she did. I took a shower at her place (I drove 3 hours to see her after mid terms)came out into her hallway to ask her a question about something and she took that as game on. Less than a minute later I was being "experienced" LOL.
It was actually a fantastic first time. I am the exception to the rule. All of my friends had a horrible first time with somebody they now either hate or avoid. I was very lucky with that.