were you clueless?

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kawigrl kawigrl
were you clueless during your first sexual experience or did you try to learn some techniques beforehand
Jan 27, 10:02 pm
Elnoa Elnoa
I was basically clueless and was still clueless afterward (it was truly awful/boring).
Jan 28, 2:00 am
MamaDivine MamaDivine
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Originally posted by kawigrl
were you clueless during your first sexual experience or did you try to learn some techniques beforehand
I was pretty young at my first "experience". I didn't know what the heck I was doing LOL. Ill admit it

I didn't do any research or anything (didn't really have those kinds of resources available to me and all my friends were as inexperienced as I was). I just kinda let it happen I guess LOL. Thank GOD I figured it out though!
Jan 28, 3:17 am
KrazyKandy KrazyKandy
I learned from porn/ natural instincts
Jan 28, 3:42 am
MR Chickhabit MR Chickhabit
way too much porn beforehand. i totally knew what went where and for how long.
Jan 28, 3:55 am
Chilipepper Chilipepper
Clueless - about the only thing I did well was kiss, and that wasn't because I had practice in that, either. Was still clueless during my marriage some years later, despite honest research and reading. You know, theory doesn't amount to a hill of beans if nobody wants to experience it with you. I didn't really learn anything until the past two years.

Late bloomer is all I can saw.
Jan 28, 9:47 am
te te
I was pretty clueless only having porn and instincts to go off of.
Jan 30, 2:36 pm
Graniteal Graniteal
i was definitely clueless. it was so horrible
Jan 30, 2:39 pm
AHubbyof2SexualMinds AHubbyof2SexualMinds
I tried to learn as much as possible, but was still clueless.
Jan 30, 2:40 pm
sktb0007 sktb0007
I was clueless lol.
Jan 30, 3:03 pm
Stormy Stormy
(EdenFantasys)
I had HBO, Showtime and Cinemax in the 80s. 'Nuf said. I had a pretty good idea how things worked and I was eager to learn, so it didn't long for me to pick up on the cues that let me know I was doing it the way my partner enjoyed. And I asked questions before, during and after. I was pretty bold as a teenager.
Jan 30, 3:08 pm
7Miles 7Miles
I tried to learn beforehand but still felt pretty clueless. Fortunately I was with a great, patient guy so it turned out to be a wonderful experience.
Feb 2, 9:25 pm
spineyogurt spineyogurt
I think I picked it up pretty fast
Feb 3, 7:20 pm
greed greed
Quote:
Originally posted by kawigrl
were you clueless during your first sexual experience or did you try to learn some techniques beforehand
one word... porn.
Feb 15, 5:48 pm
PeachieClean PeachieClean
I found a lot of odd books at the library and read up before my first experience. I was good until the actual penetrating part. Then I just kind of freaked out because of how bad it hurt.
Feb 15, 7:41 pm
fieddlerswife fieddlerswife
I read a lot but I was not really unsure my first time as I was nervous!
Feb 16, 6:38 pm
pinkpottergirl pinkpottergirl
I knew a lot about sex in theory, but during my first time I was sorta nervous and that did not help. But I felt good about it and made a good choice at a good time
Feb 18, 10:05 am
Roz W Roz W
I read a lot. It was the communicating with other people part that was hard.
Feb 19, 7:42 am
TexasFire TexasFire
Years of porn helped (also gave me a bit of an unrealistic view)...as did some reading-up on the topic.
Mar 8, 11:09 pm
butts butts
I discovered porn at 12 and became pretty numb to it, when I lost my virginity at 19 I knew what to expect, I was nervous of course, but I had no problems.
Mar 10, 4:52 am
godweensatan godweensatan
hah... my 1st time was retarded but sweet. oh well. many ladies later... whatever. its just sex, unless you love the person.
Mar 11, 12:49 pm
SubmissiveFeminist SubmissiveFeminist
Sex is always a learning experience. I don't care if you've been sexually active for fifty years, you should always be taking something from it and changing/getting better. =P
Mar 12, 12:42 am
gorgeous gorgeous
I was pretty much clueless. I was 19 and the guy I was with is older than me and he knew I was a virgin and told me what he wanted me to do.
Apr 11, 9:35 am
pix pix
No, I had googled some things and watched some porn and I already had a list of positions I wanted to try. My partner was pretty clueless though.
Apr 11, 10:19 am
In Between Soliloquies In Between Soliloquies
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Originally posted by kawigrl
were you clueless during your first sexual experience or did you try to learn some techniques beforehand
Completely clueless for a long time!
Apr 11, 10:48 am
Bex1331 Bex1331
somewhat clueless but a VERY eager learner. My bf was much more experienced than me and I used to ask him all kinds of questions, I even had him rate my blow jobs after and tell me what he liked until I was awesome lol
Apr 11, 10:57 am
SMichelle SMichelle
Yes, I was a bit clueless at first.
Apr 11, 11:04 am
LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by kawigrl
were you clueless during your first sexual experience or did you try to learn some techniques beforehand
Totally clueless.
Apr 21, 7:24 pm
hall5885 hall5885
I wasn't completely clueless but I didn't know as much as I do now. The person I was with was clueless though.
Apr 22, 6:57 pm
Girly Juice Girly Juice
I knew how to make the experience good, but I was too embarrassed to do some of those things (open communication, self-stimulation, etc.) until later in the relationship.
Apr 22, 7:50 pm
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