if you have a guy that is kind of shy how to bring him out more into the open

armywife2425 armywife2425
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my husband and I have been married for 3 years and there are things that I want to bring into the bedroom to kind of bring the spark back so he doesnt get board anybody have any suggestions how to loosen him up a bit to maybe try and get him to open up a little
02/13/2012
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Madsinner Madsinner
My boyfriend Mike is super shy but he loves when I talk dirty to him. He also pretends not to like toys but we are experimenting and I am hoping to get him a flesh-light or something.
02/13/2012
Lizzy Lizzy
Alcohol & a bj
03/09/2012
AHubbyof2SexualMinds AHubbyof2SexualMinds
Honestly I'd say have a discussion with him. It'll be uncomfortable at first, I would probably ply him with dinner at one of his favorite places before hand, but be honest. As a guy, I'd appreciate that.
03/09/2012
CadmiumKitty CadmiumKitty
I have one of these, love it!
06/02/2012
iliketoys121 iliketoys121
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Originally posted by armywife2425
my husband and I have been married for 3 years and there are things that I want to bring into the bedroom to kind of bring the spark back so he doesnt get board anybody have any suggestions how to loosen him up a bit to maybe try and get him to open ... More
ok im a male and i am quiet shy and i use to be the same way towards me women i suggest buying lube and a pussy pocket the pussy pocket is an amazing male product when me and my women use it we use it like were haveing a three sum ill eat her out she will use the pussy pocket ect ect it is very amazing sensation and feeling i dont know if you or your male are into anal but i highly would reccomend on trieng i mean yes it will hurt dont worry you will get use to it i promise anal brought mean my women closer together we had a stronger bond afterwards im just throwing out some ideas and trying to help you out a bit
02/04/2013
pinkrabbit pinkrabbit
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Originally posted by iliketoys121
ok im a male and i am quiet shy and i use to be the same way towards me women i suggest buying lube and a pussy pocket the pussy pocket is an amazing male product when me and my women use it we use it like were haveing a three sum ill eat her out she ... More
hey you sound like me an my guy. we got a lot closer
02/10/2013
pinkrabbit pinkrabbit
try buying him something and let him "sneak" it at first so he can get used to it.You can always see if it has been moved from time to time.And after you are sure that he used it a few times bring it out one night and use it on him.Maybe no sex for you that night but its better to loses one night than for ever. You know most men don't like 'new" "change" Don't bring lots of new things in at once, only one or two at a time,but not two big things at once.my be plan a day you know what time he is coming home and let him walk in on you playing, acted surprised he did, then say some thing like I'm not done yet you want to help me? Starting about sex out side of "the bed room" with him not others.Just have with him what happens in the bed room stays in the bed room in place. I found with my guy he was afraid I might go tell every we knew. When he saw I did not do that he started to open up.Now we have been together for a most 7 years, and the church boy(as I called him back then)is gone, and now we have a fun sex life.Look for clues on what he likes, If you touch his butt and he dont freak he might be open to that,order some toys catalogs look at them in bed next to him ask him what he thinks of some of them. Just remember start small you dont want to scare him.Good luck hang in there
02/10/2013
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