I'm FtM (Female to Male) pre-op, and I've browsed for a clitoral pump for a few weeks now with not many promising products turning up. They all seem small, weak, cheap (except for one I found on Amazon) and covered in pink sparkly butterflies. I don't care about a vibrator inside it, I'm not looking for stimulation, I'm looking for something that will enlarge my clitoris/help my low sensitivity. My research has lead me to cock pumps, there's a much larger variety, and there seems to be much higher quality options out there, plus most can be used on females too.

I've wanted to get my male partner a pump as well, and since my hunt for a good clitoral pump has come up short, I've started looking for a pump that we can share. I'm looking for something under $50 ideally, any recommendations?

I have my eye on this one link but I have a feeling it'll be too small for him to enjoy (since the reviews say that it "creeps" down, pushing your penis head into the plastic piece at the top, ow!)