Sometimes you just need that time to yourself. Especially if I just want to get off quickly and not have to deal with someone else.
Is it wrong to prefer a sex toy over your lover sometimes?
03/22/2012
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Seconded. There is a difference between wanting alone time, and wanting the toy more than your partner. The first is fair enough, but the latter makes me a bit sad to contemplate. I certainly wouldn't want my mate forming such preferences!
Originally posted by
Airen Wolf
While I realize that this sounds silly on the surface I really believe that one should never PREFER a toy over a partner...you might desire to use a toy and skip partner play especially if said partner is unavailable or uninterested but I will never
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While I realize that this sounds silly on the surface I really believe that one should never PREFER a toy over a partner...you might desire to use a toy and skip partner play especially if said partner is unavailable or uninterested but I will never say I prefer my toy over my partner(s).
Personally I prefer my partner(s) use my favorite toy with me. less
Personally I prefer my partner(s) use my favorite toy with me. less
03/22/2012
They're both different, so I think they fall in their own categories.
03/25/2012
I think it depends on the situation.
03/26/2012
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I wouldn't turn him down then go use a toy, that's kinda mean and would hurt his feelings. If I want sex, I'll take it from him or grab a toy. I don't prefer a toy over him but I do like to use a bullet or something at times for clitoral stimulation while having sex.
Originally posted by
Stnjbe1021
I always wonder if it's wrong to just sometimes want your toy over your lover? Is it ok to prefer your toy every once in awhile?
03/26/2012
Definitely, I mean if there are things you can do to toys or things toys can do for you that you wouldn't want your partner to do then it's a perfectly reasonable thing to do.
03/26/2012
It feels like all kinds of unhealthy if a partner feels they should be the sole object of your sexuality. I'm sure it works out fine for some couples, but I couldn't deal with a partner who thought that I shouldn't masturbate because she exists. Just 'cause we bang doesn't mean she owns my desire or my body; I gotta retain rights to touch my own body, ya know?
03/26/2012
For me, choosing my partner vs. my sex toys isn't always picking from two means to the same goal. I want to have sex with my husband for the intimacy and closeness. I want to use my sex toys because I'm feel the need to tune out the world and get off. It just depends what I'm in the mood for.
04/10/2012
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02/12/2019
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I don't prefer it, I like the real thing. But I have played with myself soon after sex with a toy. I also don't see anything wrong if you prefer one over your partner.
Originally posted by
Stnjbe1021
I always wonder if it's wrong to just sometimes want your toy over your lover? Is it ok to prefer your toy every once in awhile?
11/14/2019