Hard limits

Contributor: EnterTheFist EnterTheFist
Hard limits? Blood, knives, and animals. How much of that stuff I actually do? None haha, but there's one that I'm hoping to get to do one day...
01/09/2012
Contributor: 131231e43 131231e43
Half of these things don't even count as sane. So I wouldn't even call them "limits". Underage partners? Really? That's a limit. I wouldn't even have to set it as a limit because I wouldn't even thing someone would do that in the first place.

The only actual limit I have is scat.
01/12/2012
Contributor: geliebt geliebt
All of those options except breathplay and intoxicated.
I also draw lines at anything physically damaging at all, whether it draws blood or not. I do have a line with pain eventually and it's just no fun at all to cross it
01/12/2012
Contributor: Daemonin Daemonin
Most of those I stop at.
01/12/2012
Contributor: panthers panthers
The only one I might try is breath play.
01/15/2012
Contributor: Beck Beck
I happen to find it disturbing that there are 83 current voters and less than 70 of you voted that underage and animals were on your NO list.

Underage partners, animals, scat, others would be dead people or animals and vomit!
03/14/2012
Contributor: KyotoAngel KyotoAngel
^ I agree whole heartedly with that statement by beck.

...other than those though I'm not at all into play cutting or piercing (that may change with time but I doubt it).
I can see possibly using a canine phallus dildo or something similar if you're engaging in sex while role playing as an animal (so long as it isn't a life cast toy) but that's about as far as that goes and even that creeps me out quite a bit.
03/14/2012
Contributor: SubmissiveFeminist SubmissiveFeminist
Animals, children, and feces are my hard limits. Usually, if it's legal, it's try-able. They say it's only kinky the first time.
03/14/2012
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by biancajames
What are your hard limits? Do you have any unusual ones? Have your limits changed over the years?
No animals, kids, or scat.
03/18/2012
Contributor: eroticmutt eroticmutt
Medical, knives, and blood are my hard limits.

Yes my limits have changed to be accepting of more things
03/18/2012
Contributor: funluvinmama funluvinmama
Quote:
Originally posted by unfulfilled
I don't do anything on your list.
I am with this one. I wont do anything on the list. Well we do play around when we are intoxicated, being drunk helps my hubby go longer during sex.
03/18/2012
Contributor: funluvinmama funluvinmama
Quote:
Originally posted by unfulfilled
I don't do anything on your list.
I am with this one. I wont do anything on the list. I am pretty boring.
Well we do play around when we are intoxicated, being drunk helps my hubby go longer during sex.
03/18/2012
Contributor: xGOLDx xGOLDx
My limits have definitely changed through the years. Things that at first were a definite no I am more willing to try now (more for appeasing a partner than any curiosity myself). But I will never, ever change my mind on animals and underage. I think these should really be on everyone's no list.
03/18/2012
Contributor: Mwar Mwar
I'm not into breaking skin or excrement or pain besides a slap on the ass. Bondage is cool, though.
03/18/2012
Contributor: aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
Quote:
Originally posted by biancajames
What are your hard limits? Do you have any unusual ones? Have your limits changed over the years?
i'm down with breathplay, i often play while intoxicated (oops) and i may be down with knives or medical play if they came up. i'd have to be really comfortable with the partner. everything else on the list is a turn off for me.


i used to not be into spanking or anal sex, and now am. i also did not used to be into bondage or fisting or pegging or fucking girls with strap ons... now i am!
03/18/2012
Contributor: Lavender*Moon Lavender*Moon
No animals, kids, or toilet play. I would do medical play as long as needles, catheders or enemas were involved. We have done a little knives play but not with sharpened knives (decorative daggers). I actually want to get my dom a sword for our play time.
03/18/2012
Contributor: Voir Voir
I'm not sure what medical play is so I don't know one way or another. However I'm definitely for knife play and blood play is kinda in the gray area. Playing intoxicated is one of those things that it just depends on what is happening. I'm not a big drinker anymore so it probably isn't in the realm of potential but I'm not against it either.

Everything else listed is a definite "NO" however, for various reasons.

My limits have changed some, I think, or more, I've just come to discover more about my sexual interests than before. More like growing rather than limits changing I think.
04/09/2012
Contributor: Azule Azule
Most of those are hard limits, but they've never been anything we've ever really wanted to do in the first place.
04/09/2012
Contributor: BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
As a bottom, all of the above, plus a few more "vanilla" kink practices. I'm a terrible bottom.

As a top, all of the above and certain aspects of ageplay is off limits. And pet play. I don't want a pet.
04/10/2012
Contributor: gsfanatic gsfanatic
Nothing on the list, and nothing that'd cause permanent damage
05/14/2012
Contributor: starryeyedangel starryeyedangel
Medical play, animals, underage partners and scat are my hard limits
05/14/2012
Contributor: MistressDandelion MistressDandelion
Anything that's not human and any bodily secretion that once went into the body as food or drinks ( that means vomit, piss, feces, etc) are off limit to me.

I don't feel like an underaged partner would be a big deal if they are of legal age of consent. But then again I'm only 19, so I guess I wouldn't have that much of an age difference.
05/15/2012
Contributor: sexxxkitten sexxxkitten
Eek...all of them are off limits for me.
05/16/2012
Contributor: ghalik ghalik
My "no way" list:
anybody who can't consent
any animal which can't consent
anybody older than middle-age (I'm young, this will change as I age)
corpses
anything that could result in death
anything that could result in permanent injury
anything that leaves obvious marks on parts not coverable by clothing
anything in any orifices besides the usual (no nose, ear, eye, urethra)
urine
feces
snot
vomit
more blood than might come from a papercut
anything sharp (razors, knives, needles, etc.)
child play
animal play

There are probably other things I've forgotten....
05/16/2012
Contributor: lisasharrer lisasharrer
Quote:
Originally posted by biancajames
What are your hard limits? Do you have any unusual ones? Have your limits changed over the years?
i guess i dont know
05/16/2012
Contributor: KinkyKatiya KinkyKatiya
Quote:
Originally posted by biancajames
What are your hard limits? Do you have any unusual ones? Have your limits changed over the years?
Im very openminded... but there are just some things i will never do.. scat, urine, animal, and underage. just not for me...
05/16/2012
Contributor: pootpootpoot pootpootpoot
In addition to what I marked, multiple partners/threesome/org y (at least for now).
05/18/2012
Contributor: AHubbyof2SexualMinds AHubbyof2SexualMinds
Pretty much that entire list is no-go for my wife and I. I've found through the years that I've added more things to my list, especially after wife entered the scene.
05/24/2012
Contributor: SkinFlute SkinFlute
I'm pretty open-minded, but underage and animals are a no-no!
05/24/2012
Contributor: Phosphorous Tick Phosphorous Tick
Definately ageplay, scat, pissplay, animals
anything that has to do with bodily fluids really, and feet. I hate feet (boot worship/heel worship is okay but otherwise no)
otherwise I really wouldn't say no
Mumification is one of my flexible limits, I have a few of those.
05/25/2012