Switch couples: do you ever play games to decide who's going to be "on top"?

spiced spiced
Sometimes my wife and I will play cards or another game to determine which one of us will dominate the other in our next kinky play session. Anyone else?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Yes! We do this.
3  (30%)
No. We've never done this.
2  (20%)
We tried it and didn't like it.
We haven't tried it yet, but now that you mention it, it sounds like fun!
3  (30%)
What is a switch? We're not into BDSM, so what am I doing here?!
1  (10%)
Other?
1  (10%)
Total votes: 10
Poll is closed
05/09/2013
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Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
For us - switch just means who's getting it in the ass!

No games - just how we feel at the time. But maybe we should draw straws - that would be simple enough!
05/10/2013
married with children married with children
sometimes we do. But most of the time, I am in charge.
05/10/2013
spiced spiced
Quote:
Originally posted by Gunsmoke
For us - switch just means who's getting it in the ass!

No games - just how we feel at the time. But maybe we should draw straws - that would be simple enough!
Haha! I ALWAYS get it in the ass when my wife dominates me!

Lately, my wife always wants to dominate, but I still go back and forth. I'm glad she's open to deciding with games. And I LOVE that she gets into it more when she's "won" the right to be in charge.
05/10/2013
Fluke Fluke
As long as one person doesn't throw the game in order to get what they want that sounds incredibly hot to me to have a game to decide who gets to be "on top". I never tried it but that's an idea I'm putting in my back pocket, lol.
05/10/2013
gwenevieve gwenevieve
Quote:
Originally posted by spiced
Sometimes my wife and I will play cards or another game to determine which one of us will dominate the other in our next kinky play session. Anyone else?
never done it but it is a great idea and now im s tealing it ;P
05/14/2013
dancingduo dancingduo
Sounds like a great idea! Must give it a try.
05/15/2013
h3artsav3r h3artsav3r
Depending on our moods, we might play wrestle, or another game to see who is going to be the dominant . Sometimes though, If he is in a submissive mood, I jump at the opportunity!
12/05/2013
Slutty Girl Problems Slutty Girl Problems
Quote:
Originally posted by spiced
Sometimes my wife and I will play cards or another game to determine which one of us will dominate the other in our next kinky play session. Anyone else?
No, we don't do this. We just go with whatever we're in the mood for at the time. Feels the most natural that way (for us)
12/05/2013
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