harness with dual ended dildos

Kinky Skier Kinky Skier
i am interested in the commando harness with acute dildo, but, if we were interested in a double ended dildo, so we can both have fun, which would work best? i like the share but it seems people think it is too big. I know it will be too big for my ass, and might be too big for her too, she is quite tight. Would a feeldoe work with a harness?

thanks in advance
12/08/2009
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Sir Sir
The Nexus line is very good for g-spot stimulation of the wearer and p-spot stimulation for you. The Feeldoe does with with a harness, but the Commando is a bit harder to fit with those because there isn't much to it.
12/08/2009
Sir Sir
Here are some that are fairly good sized on both ends:

Nexus Jr.
New "Sysil Edge"
Feeldoe Slim
12/08/2009
Sir Sir
Quote:
Originally posted by Sir
The Nexus line is very good for g-spot stimulation of the wearer and p-spot stimulation for you. The Feeldoe does with with a harness, but the Commando is a bit harder to fit with those because there isn't much to it.
does work with*, excuse me.
12/08/2009
Kinky Skier Kinky Skier
Quote:
Originally posted by Sir
The Nexus line is very good for g-spot stimulation of the wearer and p-spot stimulation for you. The Feeldoe does with with a harness, but the Commando is a bit harder to fit with those because there isn't much to it.
i was also looking at the jaguar, but it seems pricey, and its our first, so putting a lot of money into this might not be wise
12/09/2009
Sir Sir
Quote:
Originally posted by Kinky Skier
i was also looking at the jaguar, but it seems pricey, and its our first, so putting a lot of money into this might not be wise
I agree with that. Does she wear thongs, or would those not be good options?
12/09/2009
Sir Sir
Since I need to get to sleep, I will suggest these at the moment, as they are in a mid to low price range and should give you a short, quick use.

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In addition to these links, I wanted to ask you, why are you trying out a double-ended dildo, as all of them are high price range, if you do not know if it will be pleasurable? Those are extremely expensive, and I actually recommend just using a dildo inside of your partner and allowing her to hold it in with the strap of the harness.
12/09/2009
ScottA ScottA
There are a couple of different options. While I haven't tried out a Feeldoe yet, I've heard that they can sometimes be a bit uncomfortable because they're a bit stiff. I do have a Nexus, and while it's a bigger model I can say that the silicone used in the Nexi is very comfortable and soft, and the Nexus Junior is long enough to be usable for pegging (I think that's what you're planning, but remind me if it's a different activity).

Another possibility, which sadly isn't sold by Eden, is the Aslan Leather "Double Up Cuff", which allows you to choose two single-ended dildos and attach them together. It isn't quite as good as a double, but it does allow each of you to choose your ideal dildo and use it as a double.

The one thing to keep in mind is to ensure that your harness has a removable back pad or a hole that goes all the way through. Most mid=priced and better harnesses do, and a number of the less-expensive ones as well (Bare As You Dare does, but personally I prefer the additional control and security of a jock-style harness (as does my partner)).
12/09/2009
Kinky Skier Kinky Skier
thanks! yeah we are probably going to start with a commando and a tantus acute dildo. I was just thinking maybe if she wants more stimulation after we grow into pegging, a double would be fun. just wondering which onesmight fit best with it
12/09/2009
deceased deceased
All of the Outlaw Leather harnesses like Syd, Annie O, Pretty Boi, Missy G, Clyde, etc have the capacity to wear one or two dildos, each of your own choice. You may want something like Acute or curve on one end, and silk or Tiger or Vamp or something else on the other side. A good harness makes all the difference in the world. The Seatle Outlaw Leather line can also hold a Feeldoe or double edge like that too.
01/01/2010
deceased deceased
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Originally posted by deceased
All of the Outlaw Leather harnesses like Syd, Annie O, Pretty Boi, Missy G, Clyde, etc have the capacity to wear one or two dildos, each of your own choice. You may want something like Acute or curve on one end, and silk or Tiger or Vamp or something ... More
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01/01/2010
leopardprint leopardprint
Quote:
Originally posted by Kinky Skier
i am interested in the commando harness with acute dildo, but, if we were interested in a double ended dildo, so we can both have fun, which would work best? i like the share but it seems people think it is too big. I know it will be too big for my ... More
I have a Sportsheets Latigo Leather harness. I also have a Nexus Sr, and I've used them together-- quite the combination! If you take out the leather panel and adjust the straps on the harness, it holds everything in place really well, and the harness is washable and fairly inexpensive.
01/01/2010
oldkinky oldkinky
Quote:
Originally posted by Kinky Skier
i am interested in the commando harness with acute dildo, but, if we were interested in a double ended dildo, so we can both have fun, which would work best? i like the share but it seems people think it is too big. I know it will be too big for my ... More
We use Nexus Jr with the Buzz Me Tender Harness. It has a pocket for a vibrator to stimulate her clitoris while she fucks me. She had her fir squirting orgasm using the harness with Nexus Jr.
01/02/2010
Big Dman Big Dman
I just bought a feeldoe for the wifey. We plan on using it with the Commando
01/02/2010
MikeyD MikeyD
I've been trying to convince the wife to try a double ender, any tips?
07/20/2011
arewehavingfun? arewehavingfun?
Quote:
Originally posted by Kinky Skier
i am interested in the commando harness with acute dildo, but, if we were interested in a double ended dildo, so we can both have fun, which would work best? i like the share but it seems people think it is too big. I know it will be too big for my ... More
What is a "feeldoe"? A kind of dildo? Thank you.
09/21/2011
ScottA ScottA
The Feeldoe was the original "strapless strap-on" dildo. They are a double-ended dildo with a approximately-ninety-d egree angle between the two enda and one end short and "butt=plug-like". The idea is that this end can be inserted into the "giving" partner and both partners can be stimulated at the same time during intercourse. If you have very strong PC muscles you can hold the Feeldoe in without a harness, but it also works with a harness.

There are many other similar dildos that are slightly different to give different feelings or work better for certain people - Share and the Sysil Edge seem to stay in better for most people when used "strapless", and the Nexus series requires a harness but is very soft and gives more of a "thrusting" feel.
09/24/2011
ScottA ScottA
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Originally posted by MikeyD
I've been trying to convince the wife to try a double ender, any tips?
The big question is if she likes pegging you with a single ended dildo or not (I'm assuming that you're male and she's female). If so it's much easier - just talk about the added stimulation and control.
09/24/2011
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