#Workshop - October 3rd @ 8pm EST: Prostate massage 101

indiglo indiglo
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Originally posted by ToyTimeTim
One thing I forgot to mention in the video is when you are removing the toy. If it is after an orgasm (Or not), it should be removed the same way as you put it in, just reversed. I find that a toy that is in during orgasm tends to not want to come ... More
This happens sometimes when I use toys vaginally, so it makes sense that the same technique would work for a guy too... just wait until the muscles relax. Good to know!
10/03/2011
ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
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Originally posted by Antipova
How long is the average inner sphincter?

I had never really noticed any difference from partner to partner, until my current partner, who's got muscles almost the entire length of my middle finger. Then I thought about it, and realized my ... More
Mine is about an inch and a half, I would say plus or minus a half an inch would be average. Try putting your finger in upside down from my technique, this may help you to feel the last sphincter better.
10/03/2011
Antipova Antipova
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Originally posted by ToyTimeTim
Mine is about an inch and a half, I would say plus or minus a half an inch would be average. Try putting your finger in upside down from my technique, this may help you to feel the last sphincter better.
Will do. Thanks for the tip. I've been quietly puzzled for a little while now.
10/03/2011
ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
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Originally posted by LambChop
I've got to run, but thanks so much! This has been really useful information, Tim! Goodnight, all!
Thanks for coming, if you have any questions please feel free to ask them here or message me.
10/03/2011
Starkiller87 Starkiller87
Thanks Tim. I feel like I understand everything more clearly. Great workshop.
10/03/2011
MrWishyWashy MrWishyWashy
Cool, informative info so far! Love p-spot toys
10/03/2011
Antipova Antipova
Right, I should probably shower and get in what nap I can before the night shift starts. It's been wonderful sharing dinner and prostate conversation with you all! G'night!
10/03/2011
ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
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Originally posted by Tuesday
I'm late to the party. I'm not sure if you've talked about this yet, but does a P-spot orgasm feel different from a regular orgasm?
Oh sure, one question I am not the best to ask. I have only had one but I cheated and use a stroker with a vibe in it. No stroking but still.

Most of the time when I am massaging and stroking, the orgasm is way more intense, more like a body O rather than a pelvic one. I ejaculate different too, probably cuz the pressure to the prostate restricts the flow somewhat. It does not come out in two or three spurts, but rather six or seven. A time or two I even gave myself a pearl necklace. lol
10/03/2011
ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
I had wanted to show a pic with all my prostate toys but due to mechanical issues today, I did not get it done. But this is my stash, on the left side is my plugs and in the center is all my dils and vibes. About 90% of these work great for massage and I would recommend any of them, if you can take the size of some of them.



Oh the two BIG black ones on the left side, I have not mastered the Cowboy (only three bulbs so far) and the Hoss is a work in progress. I need to get more comfy with the Sexy Spades first.

But, that's another story...
10/03/2011
ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
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Originally posted by Starkiller87
Thanks Tim. I feel like I understand everything more clearly. Great workshop.
Thanks, so happy everyone likes it. I hope you learned a thing or two.

10/03/2011
ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
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Originally posted by Antipova
Right, I should probably shower and get in what nap I can before the night shift starts. It's been wonderful sharing dinner and prostate conversation with you all! G'night!
Night! So glad you made it.
10/03/2011
ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
So that's it folks, I hope I enlightened you some. There is tons, and I mean tons of info on the web and right here too. All you have to do is let your fingers do the walking. lol

Feel free anytime to ask me questions or for advice, as most of you know I am always here to help.
10/03/2011
Ansley Ansley
I think you did an excellent job and I learned a lot. Not sure we're ready for toys just yet, but I'll definitely be using a lot of the information you provided to see if we can get there one day!
10/03/2011
Tuesday Tuesday
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Originally posted by ToyTimeTim
Oh sure, one question I am not the best to ask. I have only had one but I cheated and use a stroker with a vibe in it. No stroking but still.

Most of the time when I am massaging and stroking, the orgasm is way more intense, more like a body ... More
Fascinating.
10/03/2011
Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
I finally made it through all the posts. Great job Tim! I loved the video lecture! Thank you for reassuring me that I am on the right track. Love your cock and balls.
10/03/2011
ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
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Originally posted by Ansley
I think you did an excellent job and I learned a lot. Not sure we're ready for toys just yet, but I'll definitely be using a lot of the information you provided to see if we can get there one day!
Very cool Stormy, thanks. If you can get him to explore by himself it will speed things up a tad. But if not, at least you two are enjoying it together.

It's not the destination, it is the journey, right?

So happy you made it.
10/03/2011
ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
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Originally posted by Redboxbaby
I finally made it through all the posts. Great job Tim! I loved the video lecture! Thank you for reassuring me that I am on the right track. Love your cock and balls.
Realistic, no? lol

Keep at it, it can only get better.
10/03/2011
Jul!a Jul!a
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Originally posted by ToyTimeTim
So that's it folks, I hope I enlightened you some. There is tons, and I mean tons of info on the web and right here too. All you have to do is let your fingers do the walking. lol

Feel free anytime to ask me questions or for advice, as ... More
Thank you so much for hosting, Tim. You did a fantastic job!
10/03/2011
ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
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Originally posted by Jul!a
Thank you so much for hosting, Tim. You did a fantastic job!
Thanks lady, I hope you and you hubby can find something useful to use.
10/03/2011
Ansley Ansley
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Originally posted by ToyTimeTim
Very cool Stormy, thanks. If you can get him to explore by himself it will speed things up a tad. But if not, at least you two are enjoying it together.

It's not the destination, it is the journey, right?

So happy you made it.
Absolutely, thanks Triple T! I'm sure you'll read some of the adventures in my reviews...eventually. LOL
10/03/2011
ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
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Originally posted by Ansley
Absolutely, thanks Triple T! I'm sure you'll read some of the adventures in my reviews...eventually. LOL
Looking forward to it!
10/03/2011
jroho jroho
Thanks, Tim - very interesting and informative. Great Job!
10/03/2011
indiglo indiglo
Thanks Tim! Great information, and the video demos really helped a lot. Thanks for explaining it's basically like g-spot play, that makes it seem a lot easier and more accessible. Thanks for hosting! Great workshop!
10/03/2011
Jobthingy Jobthingy
I was at work tonight so I couldnt be here but I just read everything. Awesome job hun! I loved the videos. *high 5s*
10/03/2011
ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
Jroho, indiglo, and Jobthingy. I am happy to hear it was such a help and that you enjoyed it. Always happy to share some knowledge.
10/04/2011
ScottA ScottA
A bit late, but I saw a few things to add:

If you can relax and have reliably thick saliva it can be used, but there are a couple problems with saliva. The first is that it isn't reliable - it can be thick and slick to start with and then go thin on you. Secondly it tends not to stay around as well as a real lube. Often you can easily get more, but sometimes your mouth goes dry or it's not quite thick enough or something else. Generally speaking it's better to stick with a real lube.

If you can get two fingers in there are a number of things you can do that are very fun for a change. Rotating the fingers provides a different type of stimulation, as does moving them individually up and down, one after the other. They'll slide past the other finger and give the prostate a "ka-bump". Neither of these replace firm stroking, but are nice to add now and then for a change.

Until you really know your butt I strongly recommend smooth toys, as they're easier/more comfortable to insert.
10/05/2011
ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
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Originally posted by ScottA
A bit late, but I saw a few things to add:

If you can relax and have reliably thick saliva it can be used, but there are a couple problems with saliva. The first is that it isn't reliable - it can be thick and slick to start with and then ... More
Good advice ScottA. The "ka-bump" is a good idea, I find myself tapping on plugs for the same kind of effect.
10/05/2011
MatDesign MatDesign
Alright I missed this workshop but I gotta say, I recently had my first Prostate massage induced orgasm. I had a partner help me and it was a strange and hard to "let go" kind of thing, but when I stopped worrying I was going to piss I was able to have it and it was amazing like I had hoped.
11/11/2011
ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
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Originally posted by MatDesign
Alright I missed this workshop but I gotta say, I recently had my first Prostate massage induced orgasm. I had a partner help me and it was a strange and hard to "let go" kind of thing, but when I stopped worrying I was going to piss I was ... More
Very cool, glad to hear it! It only gets better from there Mat.
11/11/2011
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