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My girlfriend is coirious about anal what is the best way to start off?
Slow, slow, slow. Let her make the call on advance or stop. Forget the porn banging action (at least for a few years), and be gentle as can be. Fingers are a great start..and should be able to go in, pain free, long before a penis is even tried.
Once you go for penis insertion, realize you don't have to get in all the way on the first or second or even third time. The fact she is wanting to try is a huge gift. Use lots of lube...then use more. When you have used more, then start adding lots more. Oh...and some extra lube on top of that is a great idea.
Try different positions. If something does not feel comfortable, to her, stop. Try a different approach. Lots of folks here seem to swear by doggy style anal as their favorite. I have been an anal fanatic for decades and never, ever enjoyed doggy style anal. Maybe my build or shape..who knows. For me, missionary style or on my side is awesome fun.
Everyone is different and so go with what feels good to her.