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Toy beginner
I am new to the whole toys thing really. The idea came to me when I was planning a surprise camping get a way for me and my husband for this coming...

beginner and new to sex toys
I want to know what would be a great beginner dildo for just started out with sex toys.

Good vibe for a beginner?
I'm looking for something for my girlfriend, and we're new to using toys (together) - any suggestions for a lesbian couple?

Suggestions for BDSM Beginners?
I've been interested in BDSM (as a submissive) for years but never found the right person to play with in that way. Lately I've been thinking that...

beginner's bondage: are the kits worth it?
My partner and I are getting into bondage. I'm really into forced orgasms and feet play but I'm wondering how strong these kits are. Are they strong..

I love Ella. I think she is great for beginners!

I just ordered the Ella in Black today! She is my very first g-spot toy, and double ended non-vibrating dildo. She will definitely be breaking a lot of my cherries! ha! Can't wait!!!!

I think Ella is great for beginners bcs it will save you a lot of money if you are trying to find and stimulate your g-spot bcs Ella is a sure fire way to find it.

With so many great reviews and such a great price...I couldn't resist! I've been lusting over Ella for a long while.

She sure is pretty.

Hey Beth! I think Ella is a perfect intro-to-G toy, it's really as simple as inserting the toy, disk-side kinda up facing your pubic bone, and Ella really does know right where to hit. If you've not explored you G-spot, there is a slight chance that you might have a (totally normal!) anatomical variation in that your G-spot might be in a slightly different place, but again that's rare and certainly worth maneuvering the toy to find just what works for you!! The traditional end is great for G-spot stimulation, too, because it's raise so that it rubs against the anterior abdominal wall. Ella's a great toy, if you do get one, she's absolutely worth playing with. A plus that I found, was that since she is on the narrow side, insertion is easy So even for a beginner, she is a great intro to G-spot.

I think it is an excellent choice!

My wife wishes this would vibrate

Ella is a fantastic beginner dildo - I was my first, and it helped me find my G-spot. I still use it very often. It is also super high quality, you'll have it forever.

I agree that the Ella would be great for a beginner. It was my first dildo and I love it. I've had mine for three years and used it a lot, and it still looks brand new.

I do think Ella is a good size for a beginner. However, I find that rounded heads allow for smoother entry and more glide. I'd recommend a Pure Wand as the g-spot gold standard, and the smaller end is perfect for a beginner. Otherwise, I'd suggest the Vixen Woody (or a similar toy in Vixskin)or perhaps the Sedeux Skyn, Tantus Curve or Acute. In fact, I think Acute might be my top choice for a beginner. My hangups with Ella are the length, I wish there was more handle, and the matte texture. It can drag a bit without enough lube. The above mentioned toys don't do that. It's not that Ella isn't a quality toy, but I'd take the others over it, personally.