I like anal and my boyfriend likes sticking it in my butt. Lets see if it is guys are girl that like it more.
Mrs. Bignuf here.....saying that anal is a big part of our routine love play. We both enjoy the intensity, the intimacy and the unique feeling of anal play with each other. It's seriously fun.
FYI...if your BF enjoys giving you anal pleasure, and if YOU enjoy it, remind him that HE has the same nerves back there, and that HE also has a prostate that can add another amazing dimension that even you cannot enjoy.
Offer him a WELL, WELL lubricated finger to start with, and a little prostate rub (maybe while giving oral) and watch your lovemaking become SUPER HOT. I keep a well manicured, short nail on one finger at all times to do that for my hubby...and he LOVES me for it!!!
At first I hated it. I hated the idea and everything about it. But I did it anyways because I enjoy sex better when he enjoys it more. The more I do it and the more I work on it with myself, the more enjoyable it is. It's def something you just got to work yourself up to and get used to.
It only hurts if you're doing it wrong--plenty of lube, go slow, and ease into it. Easy as pie.
I love it...really love it. While it's partially about physical sensations, it's more about the intimacy of it for me. A lot of our sexy banter when we're chatting online has some element of anal--him taking me completely, with open, and willing access to all of me. I find it very hot, very intimate, and a lot of fun.