Pain during anal sex.

Contributor: sexyintexas sexyintexas
I used to be able to do it with no problem. Now it causes a bit of discomfort. My boyfriend gets excited and I think he rushes it which is why Im tensed up. Any suggestions on what I can do to ease this?
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Contributor: Tidwtrguy Tidwtrguy
For starters, plenty of lube is always critical. Sometimes it helps to start with a finger then maybe two to get things relaxed a bit. After that, tell him to ease in and once you are relaxed, then he can get busy. Porn movies make it look a lot different than reality from what I've experienced.
Contributor: phunkyphreak phunkyphreak
Step one use plenty of lube!!!! Then a finger or small toy then work up to his penis.
Contributor: indiglo indiglo
What has already been mentioned is good, lots of lube, use fingers - and maybe put yourself in the control position. Try lowering yourself down onto him, that way you can go as slow as you need to and control the penetration.
Contributor: BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
I'm personally not a fan of anal on me. I do it on occasion but I have to be VERY turned on to even want it.

HOWEVER... for My Mr, we do lots of warming up. Usually with lube (duh) and I start with a vibrator on his anus to relax the muscles a little. Then, we start with beads, then finger(s). Then we finish up with whatever is our "main event" toy. Our recent acquisition is the Emerald Explorer. He had like 3 non-ejaculatory orgasms with that toy. FANTASTIC!
Contributor: Solar Ray Solar Ray
Lots of lube.. and then a bit more lube after that. But above all.. he needs tp slow down and have lots of patience. If it is actually hurting (and not in a good way) that's just not enjoyable and your partner really does need to restrain himself and learn to go easier.