Scared of anal sex

fizzygato fizzygato
Is anyone else scared of anal sex?

Have any of you ever started off as scared, then got okay with it? What advice would you have for someone who's scared to try, but is curious and considering trying it out?
02/12/2013
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travelnurse travelnurse
I was at first, use lots of lube and fingers first. It is amazing.
02/12/2013
MrWill MrWill
Use lots of lube, start with something small, and do it alone the first few times.


How can you trust someone with your ass if you are afraid you'll hurt yourself?
02/12/2013
Geogeo Geogeo
Quote:
Originally posted by fizzygato
Is anyone else scared of anal sex?

Have any of you ever started off as scared, then got okay with it? What advice would you have for someone who's scared to try, but is curious and considering trying it out?
It's not for me, but thankfully I'm not curious to try!
02/12/2013
Choolz Choolz
I still have some trouble after trying for a few years with my husband. I can never seem to bring myself to fully relax, I keep thinking it's going to hurt. But the times that we have been able to go all the way, is with lots and lots of lube, comfortable position, and taking it very slowly.
02/12/2013
Passion plum Passion plum
Tried it early on and didn't like it but several years later I do enjoy it.
02/12/2013
CountryPrincess CountryPrincess
I was TERRIFIED!!! I had a bad experience once with my ex husband and swore never again. My bf now was very understanding and gentle and took his time getting me used to several different steps of it. I would recommend going very slow and lots of lube, breath and relax and use different sized stuff to slowly get used to it
02/12/2013
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
My wife was terrified for 23+ years - now she wonders why she waited so long to learn. It's about acceptance, lube and patience - then you can have fun!
02/12/2013
PeaceToTheMiddleEast PeaceToTheMiddleEast
I am and I have tried a couple of times but I just tense up. I am still not ready.
02/12/2013
captainsgirl captainsgirl
Quote:
Originally posted by fizzygato
Is anyone else scared of anal sex?

Have any of you ever started off as scared, then got okay with it? What advice would you have for someone who's scared to try, but is curious and considering trying it out?
that's normal, just start out slow.chances are you will liek it.
02/13/2013
captainsgirl captainsgirl
Quote:
Originally posted by Choolz
I still have some trouble after trying for a few years with my husband. I can never seem to bring myself to fully relax, I keep thinking it's going to hurt. But the times that we have been able to go all the way, is with lots and lots of lube, ... More
same here
02/13/2013
P'Gell P'Gell
I was scared and said no to it for years. I wish I hadn't been so afraid and had taken the plunge earlier.

It took my husband and I about a month of training to allow me to learn to relax fully and be able to accept full anal/penis sex. We started with him just playing on the outside, with lube. Then gently with his little finger, then a little more, always with lube etc. I actually didn't like anal toys until after we had actually had full anal sex, but maybe we tried the wrong ones or didn't take our time then.

I find I have to have an orgasm before we have anal sex. It's just a given. If I haven't come at least once, we don't even try anal sex until I have. I can have anal play before orgasm, in fact, it helps, but we're talking toys, probes, plugs, fingers, rimming etc. (Personally, I'm not that crazy about being on the receiving of rimming, but my husband seems to enjoy doing it, so it's OK.)

Take your time, it may take a month or more of concentrated effort and work (but it's ALL FUN) to learn to have anal sex. Start small, always use a good lube and most of all, if it hurts STOP! Go back to where it feels good and take off from there.
02/13/2013
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