Insightful breakdown of Anal Sex:

Needing a plug....
Hubby & I are looking for a plug that would be a good starter plug for me to wear while we have sex. I'm not new to anal sex/play but I have never...

For those who do use enema's pre anal, what is a GOOD and GENTLE (very gentle ) formula you use for your enema bag?
Please share your formula for a GENTLE cleaning enema, pre anal sex. Also, if anyone has a good relaxing enema FORMULA (like a Camomile tea one) can.

Do you have to be aroused?
when your having anal sex, before hand, do you have to be aroused? Or can you just go right into it?

Sick Feeling?
Every once in a while my boyfriend and I will have anal sex, and while things go smoothly and comfortably for a while I always end up with stomach...

Is rectal prolapse common with anal sex?
A friend of mine is afraid to have anal sex because a friend of hers had a rectal prolapse while having anal sex with her boyfriend. Granted, he was...

Research the site more - this question has been answered many times and the advice given is very useful.

Above all, take it slow, communicate, and use lube. Make sure he knows what he is doing and knows how to make it enjoyable for you.

I agree. But really, if you don't want to, then don't. Don't force yourself to do it just because he wants you. And don't let him manipulate you into it, either.

Also, you can try browsing through the Anal sex category of these forums! It's great!

I've found that if I orgasm once before anal, I'm much more relaxed and I really enjoy it. Also, be honest with your husband - if you want him to slow down, tell him. And always, ALWAYS use lube!