Do WOMAN "freshen up" before oral sex is received, more or less then men?

Do WOMAN "freshen up" before oral sex is received, more or less then men?

 
 
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kittychilla kittychilla
oh, totally.
Feb 2, 11:25 pm
oneeyedoctopus oneeyedoctopus
He says he doesn't like the taste, so I'm trying to wash beforehand in an effort to convince him to do it more often.
Feb 5, 11:57 am
dbm6907 dbm6907
I never make it a point to just get up and leave the situation to freshen up right before I recieve oral. But just to be sure I always wipe with baby wipes after going to the restroom.
Feb 6, 1:31 pm
ProperyOfPotter ProperyOfPotter
I'm a clean person, so I know that if I don't freshen up, it's not going to be a big deal. I always try to make sure I am though, even though my DH says that he enjoys it "day old" haha!
Feb 15, 11:43 am
lemony lemony
I prefer that both freshen up before.
Feb 15, 1:31 pm
The Mother of a SiNner The Mother of a SiNner
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Originally posted by Bignuf
The idea of "Freshening up" before you know you are going to be recieving oral from a partner has been asked, but our Friday night dinner group "free for all speak-easy" was discussing this, and it seems, in our group, the ladies were far more ... More
just depends for me really
Feb 18, 7:28 pm
Beck Beck
I usually freshen up before, but not always.
Feb 29, 9:46 am
P'Gell P'Gell
If it's been more than 12 hours since I last bathed, I'll use a washcloth to take a "bird bath" at the sink. My Man also freshens up, but he also showers at least once and often twice a day, so he's a very clean man.

Although he's been known to stop me on the way to the bathroom to freshen up, saying he wants me "dirty." Men....
Feb 29, 9:52 am
unfulfilled unfulfilled
I consider myslef pretty clean all of the time so I don't care about freshening up.
Feb 29, 10:31 am
Nora Nora
If it's a "surprise", then no, I do not get up and run for the bathroom for a quick rinse. However, if we are talking about it, I'll generally hop in the shower first, especially if it's a particularly hot day and I've been sweating all day!
Feb 29, 10:43 am
underHim underHim
Always. The cleaner the better
Mar 6, 11:07 am
John E W John E W
I like the idea of being when I receive oral and I like for the woman I'm with to be clean as well if I'm going to eat her out! It's only fair. And who likes performing oral on a dirty person? No thanks!!
Mar 9, 12:39 pm
DynamicKitty DynamicKitty
Being clean is good but freshening up is not something I do before receiving oral.
Mar 9, 12:47 pm
ellejay ellejay
I always try to freshen up.
Mar 11, 8:18 pm
Curiouscat Curiouscat
I always freshen up if I can.
Mar 11, 8:21 pm
wildorchid wildorchid
If it's spontaneous then no, but I always try. And I appreciate it when he does too. There is nothing worse than the smell of sweaty balls and the taste of unwashed cock. If he's showered that morning or whatever, then totally fine. Otherwise, you can bet your butt we're having some pretty fun shower sex before the great stuff!
Mar 11, 8:56 pm
irishlove irishlove
We always have sex after I get out of the shower because that's when I feel better about myself which leads to being in the mood. Occasionally when we have morning sex I'll freshen up.

When I was younger & with my first partner, I didn't freshen up. He didn't mind either.
Mar 11, 9:28 pm
destinationtwilight destinationtwilight
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
The idea of "Freshening up" before you know you are going to be recieving oral from a partner has been asked, but our Friday night dinner group "free for all speak-easy" was discussing this, and it seems, in our group, the ladies were far more ... More
Women will always be more concerned with this issue.
Mar 12, 12:36 am
gloomybear gloomybear
its so rare for me that i dont but i make sure my bf does
Mar 24, 2:24 am
curious kitten curious kitten
I want him to be clean for me and loving him is treating him the same way.
Mar 24, 2:45 am
curious kitten curious kitten
I want him to be clean for me and loving him is treating him the same way.
Mar 24, 2:45 am
curious kitten curious kitten
I want him to be clean for me and loving him is treating him the same way.
Mar 24, 2:45 am
deltalima deltalima
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
The idea of "Freshening up" before you know you are going to be recieving oral from a partner has been asked, but our Friday night dinner group "free for all speak-easy" was discussing this, and it seems, in our group, the ladies were far more ... More
I prefer doing it first.
Mar 24, 2:49 am
Mwar Mwar
I like to freshen up, but if he's persistent I let him.
Mar 24, 10:56 am
samanthalynn samanthalynn
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
The idea of "Freshening up" before you know you are going to be recieving oral from a partner has been asked, but our Friday night dinner group "free for all speak-easy" was discussing this, and it seems, in our group, the ladies were far more ... More
always
Apr 4, 2:20 pm
Azule Azule
I freshen up just because I like to feel clean all the time, it's probably a minor OCD thing, but I just don't like feel all sticky and gross.
Apr 4, 2:29 pm
ladychristie ladychristie
I'm a home health aide and have smelled things I shouldn't have, so I have become obsessive about staying fresh all the time, I keep wipes on the toilet now and use them all the time.
Apr 6, 9:43 am
Positwist Positwist
I certainly won't ruin a moment so I can go clean up, but I'll freshen up if I know beforehand.

I don't really care if my partners freshen up, usually. I feel like it's really more of a ritual to demonstrate consideration than it is practical.
Apr 6, 9:55 am
RickyNStephy RickyNStephy
I like to be clean husband. As long as I've had a shower that day I'm good to go. I don't think guys care as much. We have sex a lot of the time towards the night after my daughters gone to sleep and that's usually after a relaxing hot shower. So I guess I don't worry too much about freshening up.
Apr 6, 10:00 am
FruityCloudPuff FruityCloudPuff
I don't really "freshen up" beforehand, but if I know I'm going to see him the next day, I make sure to clean it a little more than normal. But I'm naturally clean, so it isn't a concern at all.
Same with him, he never freshens up beforehand.
Apr 6, 12:32 pm
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