My partner has done it a lot, but never with a dildo. I don't use those. Only vibrators for me. He's used his fingers too, but sometimes I just like the licking for a while because it REALLY builds up the horniness! Lol. It makes me CARAZAY! After a while though, I like to add a vibrator or do it. As long as there's not too much hard thrusting and hard licking though because that can be too much and just make things uncomfortable or make me squirm because of the intensity and it's hard to get men to understand sometimes that too much intensity that makes you squirm is not always a good thing. Less is better because if you're squirming, it's too much and you can't enjoy it much