Do you prefer being the big spoon or little spoon, which do you prefer?

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Do you prefer being the big spoon or little spoon, which do you prefer?

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Contributor: Nickisonehere Nickisonehere
I'm just curious
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Nickisonehere , Perish , Jimbo Jones , Naughty Student , Viv , Epiphora , Gary , tantric , Quirky , ZenaidaMacroura , Femme Mystique , Sir , spicywife , tim1724 , El-Jaro , yaumes , Two Loves , Passionate Pastor , VeronicaStone , CockGawker , Robin Goodfellow , sandblastedskin , PonyPlay , OhMy! , David88 , Lavender*Moon , Jenniae09 , The Nakanas , Sohotdinosaur , G-Lo , MeliPixie , Kkay , The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary , ghent529 , redstars , Gluesnffr , ben12 , boxunderbed , xxSuzakuxx , Martiniman , Katelyn , KinkyKatieJames , Beautiful-Disaster
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Contributor: Adriana Ravenlust Adriana Ravenlust
I don't give a damn either way and can't understand why people do. LOL
05/06/2009
Contributor: Perish Perish
If there was a "neither" then that would of been my choice. I like to take a shower or get the smell of sex off my hands after sex to be honest. But when it boils down to it, i guess i like to be the big spoon...
05/06/2009
Contributor: Nickisonehere Nickisonehere
Quote:
Originally posted by Perish
If there was a "neither" then that would of been my choice. I like to take a shower or get the smell of sex off my hands after sex to be honest. But when it boils down to it, i guess i like to be the big spoon...
Haha, I suppose I should have had a fourth option for 'I loathe them equally'. Sorry, Perish
05/06/2009
Contributor: Adriana Ravenlust Adriana Ravenlust
Quote:
Originally posted by Perish
If there was a "neither" then that would of been my choice. I like to take a shower or get the smell of sex off my hands after sex to be honest. But when it boils down to it, i guess i like to be the big spoon...
I read "post-sex behavior and cuddling" as two different things. Do you not like cuddling at all? Can I show you the good things about it? Haha
05/06/2009
Contributor: Liz2 Liz2
Honestly, never think about it. Guess it depends on the day! But I just enjoy being together.
05/06/2009
Contributor: Naughty Student Naughty Student
After sex we just fall asleep ad try not to touch others sweaty body. When we wake up we shower.

At night however when we sleep we sort of unconsciously rotate from being the spooner to the spooney and I love to be the spooner. I sleep with a teddy bear (yeah, I don't know why I still do that I just like holding something in my arms and a pillow just doesn't do it for me) so I really love to be the one who spoons when we cudle at night.
05/06/2009
Contributor: Miss Cinnamon Miss Cinnamon
I love being held and cuddled. Due to size differences between my partner and I, I can't be the big spoon. Not that I mind!
05/06/2009
Contributor: Perish Perish
Quote:
Originally posted by Adriana Ravenlust
I read "post-sex behavior and cuddling" as two different things. Do you not like cuddling at all? Can I show you the good things about it? Haha
I don't know really, it's alright i guess... And yes, anytime you want to show me would be great lolz..
05/06/2009
Contributor: Nickisonehere Nickisonehere
Quote:
Originally posted by Adriana Ravenlust
I read "post-sex behavior and cuddling" as two different things. Do you not like cuddling at all? Can I show you the good things about it? Haha
Cuddling's okay when I'm tired lol
05/06/2009
Contributor: Epiphora Epiphora
I like both, but I voted for big spoon because I like to fall asleep big-spooning my boyfriend.
05/06/2009
Contributor: Lithaewyn Lithaewyn
Well... for one, I look ridiculous trying to spoon my boyfriend. He's a lot bigger than puny little me and it's not very doable. Think of sleeping on a couch while facing the backrest lol. But sometimes I do when he's sleeping.

I simply prefer being the "little spoon". I'm really submissive and prefer to be "protected" over being the "protector". I don't believe stereotypical roles are good, but this one rings true for me.
05/06/2009
Contributor: Backseat Boohoo Backseat Boohoo
I like them both. Since I like bigger men, I like to be the little spoon with them and feel them wrapped around me. And since I like women who are roughly the same size as I am, I usually prefer to be the big spoon and snuggle in to their hair. Women smell so nice.
05/06/2009
Contributor: NaughtyButterfly NaughtyButterfly
Quote:
Originally posted by Lithaewyn
Well... for one, I look ridiculous trying to spoon my boyfriend. He's a lot bigger than puny little me and it's not very doable. Think of sleeping on a couch while facing the backrest lol. But sometimes I do when he's sleeping.

I ... more
I have the same problem. I'm only 5'2" so it is hard for me to be the big spoon, but I don't mind
05/06/2009
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
Both, except for the times when we cuddle face-to-face.
05/07/2009
Contributor: ZenaidaMacroura ZenaidaMacroura
I like both, but being the big spoon with my husband is pretty much the easiest way for me to fall asleep. It's so freaking comfy. We don't really spoon after sex, though. We either hop right up and go do something else, or we cuddle with me laying on his shoulder and fall asleep.
05/09/2009
Contributor: Naughty Student Naughty Student
Quote:
Originally posted by ZenaidaMacroura
I like both, but being the big spoon with my husband is pretty much the easiest way for me to fall asleep. It's so freaking comfy. We don't really spoon after sex, though. We either hop right up and go do something else, or we cuddle with me ... more
Oh yeah, the shoulder cuddle we do as well. In fact, sometimes we lay down in oppsoite directions. I don't know why we do that, I guess if we turn on our side and look down at our feet we can see each other completely.
05/09/2009
Contributor: Sir Sir
I'm always the "big spoon." We have cuddled facing each other, though.
06/13/2009
Contributor: Valyn Valyn
I prefer being the little spoon. His chest/shoulders are much wider than mine, so it's awkward holding him.. though I have done it.. I just like being wrapped around him somehow.
07/05/2009
Contributor: Oggins Oggins
I like them both depending on how submissive I'm feeling. I tend to get very warm at night though and while that's great for my partner because he's constantly cold, I tend to push him away because I'm just too warm. It was really bad when I was pregnant and would get even more uncomfortably warm! There were a few times then that I would actually roll on top of him to sleep so he couldn't snuggle up to me. Heh.
07/19/2009
Contributor: Raven Raven
I am always the little spoon because of size differences. But we do a lot of face-to-face cuddling, too. I love the feel of being nestled against him with my head on his chest and his chin resting on my head. So sweet.
10/03/2009
Contributor: EffinSara EffinSara
I'm the little spoon. That's where I feel safest
11/21/2009
Contributor: SilverVixen SilverVixen
Quote:
Originally posted by Nickisonehere
I'm just curious
Ok I guess I'm *other* haha. Not a big spooner.
11/21/2009
Contributor: Twist Shimmy Twist Shimmy
I'm the little spoon because my partner is a foot taller than I am and has broad shoulders, so snuggling him feels a lot like rock climbing.
11/21/2009
Contributor: Domineight Domineight
Totally depends on my mood. Sometimes if I'm feeling blue I like to be held but I'd say more often I like to be big spoon and be able to hold on to him, especially when sleeping.
01/26/2010
Contributor: ordinaryak ordinaryak
whenever im the big spoon my arm usually goes numb becuase his body is wider then mine (not fat just wider ) so i dont spoon him very often.
02/28/2010
Contributor: TacoODoom TacoODoom
after i run to wash the lube off, i'm not opposed to a snuggle.
02/28/2010
Contributor: Jenn (aka kissmykitty) Jenn (aka kissmykitty)
(EdenFantasys)
Being the big spoon is more comfortable for me in terms of being able to relax or sleep, but I generally like being the little spoon, because I like the feel of my husband's body curved around me.
03/04/2010
Contributor: Chilipepper Chilipepper
I'm bigger than Mulder (he's a skinny nit), so I end up being the big spoon.

It's okay, but I'd like to be the little spoon for once. The Celtic Bitch wants to be held and protected.

Maybe my next life time ...
04/11/2010
Contributor: KBToys24 KBToys24
I always giggle at being the "big spoon" since I am a foot shorter than my husband. I enjoy being the little spoon more because it is more comfortable to me but since it's not more comfortable for my husband I don't mind switching
04/11/2010