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My SO wants me to masturbate in front of him but I'm embarrassed anyone else feel this way? Will the feeling pass?
As I have said, it is a huge turn on for most guys. If you are embarrassed, try doing it at night with the lights off. Or pull a sheet up over you at first.
My wife and I will sometimes play "strip Black Jack" (It's faster than poker
). The winner of course, gets to request an article of clothing to be removed, and usually we are about even. Last time, I lost miserably! I was butt naked almost immediately. Eventually, I caught up. In the mean time, the rules say that the winner can ask the looser to do something, usually some form of teasing. Well, she had been teasing me by touching herself, and not letting me join in. After a few times of that, she grabbed a toy, and finished herself off. I about passed out!
So yes, we are visual, and yes, we like it!