Would you ever let your SO watch you masturbate?

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Originally posted by vanilla&chocolate
Most men LOVE it. You'll be so turned on by his reaction that you'll forget to be nervous!
Really? Do tell.
05/07/2012
ViVix ViVix
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Originally posted by hansen3
My SO wants me to masturbate in front of him but I'm embarrassed anyone else feel this way? Will the feeling pass?
It depends on how long I've been with someone, but after awhile, it isn't so awkward.
05/07/2012
JG24FanUK JG24FanUK
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Originally posted by hansen3
My SO wants me to masturbate in front of him but I'm embarrassed anyone else feel this way? Will the feeling pass?
At first I was a bit embarrassed to do it, but not anymore.
05/07/2012
unfulfilled unfulfilled
I'm not embarassed about it at all. I've been married though for almost 9 years so we're completely comfortable with each other.
05/07/2012
StarFire StarFire
i let him watch all the time of course 90% of the time it leads to other things
05/07/2012
Snozzberries Snozzberries
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Originally posted by Istanbull
Surgical Orthodontist
I like you.
05/07/2012
sweetpea12 sweetpea12
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Originally posted by hansen3
My SO wants me to masturbate in front of him but I'm embarrassed anyone else feel this way? Will the feeling pass?
Your partner will really enjoy watching you and I'm sure that because s/he asked you to do it he loves your body and the way you look. You shouldn't feel embarrassed at all. I would definitely do it, it's really sexy
05/10/2012
P'Gell P'Gell
We've both done this with regularity. Sometimes one of us is tired and the other one will say, "Well, I need to get off. You can watch if you like." Other times, it's just part of sex play.

I have to say I don't think I've ever been embarrassed by it. He gets extremely turned on by it, and I get turned on when ever he does it.

So, for us, it's a lot of fun. In fact, when we first got our Wahl, I had to show him how I used it. He had no idea what to do with it. He just lay there, at the foot of the bed, completely entranced. "That was pretty hot." He said afterward. Now, using that toy is an every day part of our sex life. Same goes for other toys, although he usually figures out what to do with them, but still wants me to show him what I like to do with them.
05/10/2012
Undead Undead
Yes, no problem with it.
05/10/2012
PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
He loves watching me...I feel a little insecure sometimes, and prefer it when he's doing it too, but we enjoy it.
05/10/2012
Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by hansen3
My SO wants me to masturbate in front of him but I'm embarrassed anyone else feel this way? Will the feeling pass?
I would if he asked, or if I am warming up for him and he comes in, I sure wouldn't stop. Think about the fact HE has seen all your parts already, you want him there MORE, and most important, DON'T feel shy, it will give HIM great thrills. Just relax and enjoy!!!!! Tell him to SIT DOWN....you have a surprise for him. Hike your leg up between his (Captain Morgan style) and make sure you have on a short dress or such, and no undies, then just start rubbing yourself in front of him. When he reaches up to help...or goes to put a little tongue action in (he WILL do something), say "OH NO...all you can do is WATCH"!!!!! Once you are "done", say "DON'T move". Reach down, unzip him and suck him off...and believe me, you will have given him YEARS of amazing memories, and HE WILL LOVE YOU FOR IT. Ask some guys here if I am right or wrong about this??? I did it for my hubby once and YEARS later, he grins at the mention. I still flash him or do a little "self love" for his viewing pleasure. Guys are VISUAL. For them, it's a swell treat.
05/10/2012
Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by Sex Positivity
I've done it several times. It's really sexy for a lot of men to watch - it gives them the sense that they're watching pornography and then they get to join in (so I've been told from previous partners).

At first, you'll ... More
VERY well said. Actually, that last line has me confused, however. I always pushed my limits when trying to put on a show for him. Made ME more hot and HIM more interested in ANYTHING I was doing.
05/10/2012
Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by Istanbull
Surgical Orthodontist
REALLY? I thought it was a SOUTHERN OPTOMETRIST!!!
05/10/2012
NarcissisticLust NarcissisticLust
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Originally posted by hansen3
My SO wants me to masturbate in front of him but I'm embarrassed anyone else feel this way? Will the feeling pass?
I get a little nervous, but my partner and I do this from time to time.
05/10/2012
Do emu Do emu
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Originally posted by Annemarie
Long distance relationship, so, we can't really be intimate without it.

Tell him that you want to see him masturbate as you masturbate. Levels the playing ground, and makes it more fun!
LDRs are a pain without it. Definitely a must have for me. luckily I'm here with him now in Italy <3
05/10/2012
blondie blondie
I was in a long distance relationship for a while and we would have "skype sex" when we couldnt be together. I was shy at first and would put the covers over my lower half, but then I got more comfortable.
05/10/2012
Teaser Teaser
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Originally posted by Istanbull
Surgical Orthodontist
LOL!
05/10/2012
Teaser Teaser
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Originally posted by 31 Flavors
Really? Do tell.
Really! Watching my wife masturbate is a HUGE turn on! I'm not really sure why? but I know it is, and she will sometimes offer, or I might ask her to.
05/10/2012
Teaser Teaser
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Originally posted by Bignuf
I would if he asked, or if I am warming up for him and he comes in, I sure wouldn't stop. Think about the fact HE has seen all your parts already, you want him there MORE, and most important, DON'T feel shy, it will give HIM great thrills. ... More
Well said, and very correct. My wife never did that for me, but just imagining it is a turn on. We ARE visual, and we, or at least I find that kind of stuff very sexy!
05/10/2012
mlmac mlmac
I never have, but if she wanted to watch, I guess I wouldn't mind and I might even feel a little turned on about it. But then again, I may feel embarrassed or a little uncomfortable , only because it was the first time.( No, not my first time, but my first time in front of her) I know, kind of weird after being married for so long.
05/10/2012
mama2007 mama2007
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Originally posted by hansen3
My SO wants me to masturbate in front of him but I'm embarrassed anyone else feel this way? Will the feeling pass?
i don't/won't lol.. the discussion has never came up. id be embarrassed too.
05/10/2012
Teaser Teaser
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Originally posted by hansen3
My SO wants me to masturbate in front of him but I'm embarrassed anyone else feel this way? Will the feeling pass?
As I have said, it is a huge turn on for most guys. If you are embarrassed, try doing it at night with the lights off. Or pull a sheet up over you at first.

My wife and I will sometimes play "strip Black Jack" (It's faster than poker ). The winner of course, gets to request an article of clothing to be removed, and usually we are about even. Last time, I lost miserably! I was butt naked almost immediately. Eventually, I caught up. In the mean time, the rules say that the winner can ask the looser to do something, usually some form of teasing. Well, she had been teasing me by touching herself, and not letting me join in. After a few times of that, she grabbed a toy, and finished herself off. I about passed out! So yes, we are visual, and yes, we like it!
05/10/2012
PeaceToTheMiddleEast PeaceToTheMiddleEast
I like to watch and be watched.
05/10/2012
Woman China Woman China
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Originally posted by js250
I was painfully shy the first few times, but after realizing how turned on he got it is now one of my favorite activities. Of course, he reciprocates!!
Me too!!!

It has become for me even more intimate then sex when I am with a partner I care for. To let him watch and see the perfect way and places I like to be touched... my personal guards slide away and he gets to see just me. If this makes any sense.

When I am with a fling, it's still fun but, it's one of those things I want to get it over with somewhat quickly.
05/10/2012
robertk2380 robertk2380
She's told me she likes to watch me and I love to watch her. It's not a regular occurrence, but we will sometimes do it together while facing each other. It can be very hot, and it certainly shows me what she likes.
05/10/2012
Tork48309 Tork48309
YUM! Watching a woman satify herself is SO hot. Give it a try, he'll want more!
05/10/2012
Emerlyn Emerlyn
It really depends.... I mean, if they were tied up and I was teasing them, sure! Or if they were 'controlling' me, then yeah, that works too
05/14/2012
Ganconagh Ganconagh
We love to watch each other masturbate
07/27/2012
Trysexual Trysexual
Yes yes yes. Love to masturbate in front of anyone for that matter.
07/27/2012
romstomp romstomp
I enjoy mutual masturbation sessions quite a bit actually
07/27/2012
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