Would you ever let your SO watch you masturbate?

HB042 HB042
I never have, for anyone. The way I see it, that's my private time. He would like me to, and maybe someday I will... but I have terrible performance anxiety, and just can't get comfortable with the thought of putting on a show.
07/27/2012
cutiefairyprincess cutiefairyprincess
I dont think I could id feel like there judging me:s
07/27/2012
gwenevieve gwenevieve
Quote:
Originally posted by hansen3
My SO wants me to masturbate in front of him but I'm embarrassed anyone else feel this way? Will the feeling pass?
My husband and I do this like, ALLLL the time! We love it so much! There's nothing sexier to me, than to see him playing with himself.
07/27/2012
NightKat NightKat
We do all the time! Its a big part of our BDSM dynamic.
07/27/2012
Zandrock Zandrock
hell yes
07/28/2012
LadyDarknezz LadyDarknezz
It is very sexy, but I always felt so shy and self-conscious during it. After a little convincing though, I tend to really get into it.
07/28/2012
Sinfully Sinfully
It can be quite fun.
07/28/2012
naturegirl naturegirl
It started years ago when I had to show him how I like to be touched (I have very particular wants and needs!), next thing I knew I was in the throes of a climax. It has been a part of our repertoire ever since, usually ending with him ejaculating over my fingers while I play with myself.
09/12/2012
travelnurse travelnurse
It's part of foreplay sometimes!!
09/12/2012
aluminummm aluminummm
I love doing this!
09/12/2012
table38792 table38792
Of course! It's pretty fun to watch each other
09/12/2012
glasskitten glasskitten
When our relationship was long distance, we would do it on webcam. That was VERY sexy back then! Now, in front of him... well, it's awkward. We haven't done it too much, but I think maybe it'll pass if I do it enough to allow myself to get used to it.

If it makes you too uncomfortable, don't do it! But you may find it worth exploring at some point.
09/12/2012
SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
He asks me to do this while we're on long car rides. I love to do it, and love it even more when he sucks my fingers after
09/12/2012
MJ7 MJ7
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Surgical Orthodontist
thank you, i had a good laugh xD
09/13/2012
MJ7 MJ7
Don't be shy! Your partner thinks you are sexy and will definitely be really turned on to see you do this. I have done this with my past partners, and it actually INCREASED my confidence, seeing how much they enjoyed it.
09/13/2012
joelb42 joelb42
Jacked off for my wife last night and shot all over her belly. It was quite exciting for both of us.
09/13/2012
pirata pirata
i was embarrassed at first too, but you get over it if it turns you on enough lol
09/13/2012
Fun Lover Fun Lover
Watching her is the salad before the main course!
09/14/2012
Apirka Apirka
I've done it for past partners (they didn't ask, I just did it) and they loved it. Obviously I had no problems with it
09/14/2012
RedKyuubi RedKyuubi
Very hot
09/22/2012
sXeVegan90 sXeVegan90
I'm fine with this.
09/23/2012
gavind gavind
Definitely no. I guess I'm just not that mature enough. EdenFantasys Logo
09/23/2012
AwesomeAmanda AwesomeAmanda
I am ok with it now completely, at the beginning of our relationship i was embarrassed.
09/26/2012
emiliaa emiliaa
Don't do anything you are uncomfortable with.
09/26/2012
nann nann
I have done this for her a few times, but she has to be in the right mood.
04/12/2013
OFWife OFWife
Quote:
Originally posted by hansen3
My SO wants me to masturbate in front of him but I'm embarrassed anyone else feel this way? Will the feeling pass?
I used to be like that, but I got over it. It is huge turn-on for him and in turn becomes a turn-on for me when I see the lust in his eyes.
04/12/2013
lilyflower lilyflower
I like to if the guy doesn't get too pushy telling me what to do or how to do it. I've had that happen and then it just feels like I'm doing a performance for his benefit, and I can't really come then.

On the flip side, I've really loved watching boyfriends masturbate. Although I had one who seemed embarrassed to do it, so I didn't ask him again.
04/12/2013
Beautiful-Disaster Beautiful-Disaster
Yeah.
04/13/2013
TJtheMadHatter TJtheMadHatter
I've done it and never had a problem. He's not really into it. I think he likes the idea of me masturbating, but he never really asks me to, he wants to do it for me. I have no problem with that either. lol
04/13/2013
JDear JDear
When my partner uses toys on me her arms can get tired, especially if I get the pure wand out, so sometimes I let her take a break and work myself and she watches.
04/13/2013
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