I need to be the lone dissenting vote here as well as play Devil's Advocate. If a man wants pegging, more power to him and his partner!
However, I know I
don't like to be constantly nagged to get into something sexual that I don't want to do, and I don't think a man should be, either.
Some men simply DO NOT enjoy anal penetration. I think that needs to be respected. I also don't believe in the "equilateral play is fair play" thing for all couples. Some couples only play ONE way.
My Man and I have anal sex, it's great. But, he has NO interest in being penetrated by me, and I have absolutely
no interest in doing it to him.
I think, Bella, if you man doesn't want it, leave him be for a while. If he were to want it, he'll let you know. Nagging, constantly hinting, never letting it go will only push him farther away. I've gotten rid of lovers who wouldn't let go of some things I simply wasn't interested in doing.
Love and Sex are about Respect and Communication. Even in D/S relationships, even in pegging relationships, even in ANY relationship.
Listen to what your man is saying. IF he says he doesn't want it, the most logical assumption is he doesn't want it.
Please, respect his choices.