#TrueorFalse 11.0

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#TrueorFalse 11.0

Stellar Stellar
My dear community!

We've been tickling a lot of frisky topics in this thread, and I do hope that we'll continue discussing something way more interesting about our sex lives, than what we usually see on Cosmopolitan pages

Today I think we should start a discussion of really scandalous type. Since we've established previously, that our libidos might become more active in spring, it's time to evaluate. how this increase may influence our sexuality, and, namely, our fidelity to the partner. Surely, I won't provoke you to talk about cheating - that's not a pleasant topic to discuss, but there is a psychological form of cheating, that, apparently, is acceptable for the majority of people. But we'll put that to our own test, won't we?

It is now open for discussion, do you think THIS to be true, false or plausible?

The majority of men and women fantasize about other people while making love to their partner.

Okaaaaaay. Thorny topic, I guess, but we are open-minded, so we can freely talk about anything. Please note, that, even though I've chosen a thesis that only mentions love making, I'm also interested in who do you fantasize about when you are playing solo, with your favorite toys.

I must admit that I once had a period of time, when my fiance and I only found a new job - we were working together - and our extremely handsome and cool boss (20 years older) laid his eyes on me. Of course, all he got was a firm "No", but I couldn't help but wonder... A few times at home, with my fiance, I've still wondered. Sure, this delusion faded after a few weeks, but I still remember the experience, and how furiously was I controlling myself not to whisper a wrong name >__<

That was horrible, and I felt very ashamed, although I understand that my fiance must have had such "moments", too, but we've never shared. So I'll call this one true, even though I far of being proud for that. And now I'm eager to know what do you think!

What would be your verdict?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
C&K0143 , Herzer , surreptitious , Stellar , Narr , Brandiewhy
6  (43%)
Inquisitor , DancerKittyKat , Lvstoplay , OneofakindBeauty
4  (29%)
unfulfilled , catt , gehuwd , RockDoc
4  (29%)
Total votes: 14
Poll is open
Mar 21, 7:58 am
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OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
Do we answer based on fantasize: ever, once in a while or majority of the time.

Our answer would be based on your answer.
Mar 21, 6:13 pm
Stellar Stellar
Quote:
Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
Do we answer based on fantasize: ever, once in a while or majority of the time.

Our answer would be based on your answer.
Dear OH, I think if it happened at least once, it counts as experience.
Mar 24, 7:39 am
Inquisitor Inquisitor
I didn't see this till today. I have no idea how I missed this one... Anyway, its complicated for me to answer either 100 percent yes or no. Where the grey area lies for me is here, it's not like I started thinking about someone else from the beginning of the encounter. My mind wandered briefly and I found myself not being 100 present in the encounter.

I found myself thinking about this completely anonymous woman wearing a backless knee length light green dress. I had seen briefly while waiting at a stop light. I was in my car listing to some talk radio when I looked out the passenger side window and saw her. For some reason I can not explain she stuck in my mind.

Anyway..., yeah, it happened at least once or twice.

These days, I really try to focus and be present, if you know what I mean. I'd also like to add that this is NOT a regular occurrence.

Oh, you also asked about who or what I think about when going at it stag Stellar. Well, I usually fantasize about the partner doing something she normally wouldn't be doing, hence the fantasy.
Mar 24, 5:30 pm
unfulfilled unfulfilled
I feel it's plausible. Maybe not 100% of the time thinking about someone else, but maybe every once in awhile people think of someone else. As far as what I do solo, I think about what I'd like to have done to me by my partner.
Mar 29, 9:52 am
surreptitious surreptitious
I think that it's true that the majority of people do at least once or twice.

I'm not really a fantasizer either during sex or by myself (though I do fantasize a lot during classes, on the bus, when I'm bored at work, etc). I don't think that I have ever thought of someone else in a sexual way during sex. But my sexual fantasies are pretty much reserved for saving me from boredom, and less so for turning me on. I'm pretty aroused at the drop of a hat without a mental image (or even a visual one) necessary, so it's just not something that I've ever developed. It's not that it doesn't do anything for me - far from it - I've just never found it to provide significant improvement over spending my energy focusing on tactile stimulation.
Mar 29, 1:05 pm
OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
I think it it true that it may have happened. Maybe not on a regular basis though. Sometimes you see a gorgeous person and wonder about them.

For OW, she said she never ever did it.

She also told me I was her first. And I believe her.
Mar 29, 4:23 pm
Stellar Stellar
Quote:
Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
I think it it true that it may have happened. Maybe not on a regular basis though. Sometimes you see a gorgeous person and wonder about them.

For OW, she said she never ever did it.

She also told me I was her first. And I believe ...
Well, OH, my fiance was my first, too, but that doesn't mean that I don't wonder sometimes

As I can see, my friends, we are all fantasizers here, at least a little bit. And that perfectly fine, you know, and it doesn't mean we are not engaging with our partner to the fullest. It just means that we human beings and we feel attraction to other human beings. After all, we don't strive to bring our fantasies to reality I call this one PLAUSIBLE!

Now, we can fly on to the next discussion!
Mar 31, 7:20 am
catt catt
I have to say plausible...because it happens but I can't really say that 'most' people do...and personally it's usually solo
Apr 2, 1:35 pm
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