The New Intimacy

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Contributor: Stellar Stellar
Well, my dear contributors, now that we are quite a bit acquainted with each other's tempers, I believe it's time to go even deeper. Masturbation. A beautiful concept that initially brought us all together in this community. It is out of question whether we do it or not at all, because everybody does it, just not anyone has the guts to talk about it But we do have! And here we are, leaving our complexes behind, talking about self-exploration.
It is now open for discussion, do you think THIS to be true, false or plausible?

Masturbation brings only emotional and physical relief, but no real sexual pleasure.

Actually, this topic is much more thrilling then those we've had earlier, because it can help me understand why are we all here. Leaving aside the toys' usage during couples' play, toys were initially made for self-play, and it's really exciting for me to find out whether we are working in the name of pleasure or something more mundane.

Anyway, I must say that most of my experiences bring me to conclusion that masturbation can rarely be a way to receive real pleasure, because I care about emotional part of sexual activity a lot. So I call true. But that's just me, cheesy and naive inexperienced girl. I understand, that masturbation may be a way to discover some exceptional capabilities of your own body and build up to better sex life as a whole, so I'm kinda hoping for some experience lessons.

Let the discussion begin!
What would be your verdict?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Stellar
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OH&W, Lovebears , Inquisitor , catt , unfulfilled , Andykh , gehuwd , Vnessa , Narr , DancerKittyKat , sXeVegan90 , Peg , Teganxoxo , RockDoc , Brandiewhy , OneofakindBeauty , RonLee , Devz , C&K0143 , wicked48 , Jmo2280 , GingerMeggie , Lvstoplay , 20yearstogether , Soundside46
24  (92%)
RobbieVibrates
1  (4%)
Total votes: 26
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Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
If that was not sexual pleasure I felt, then what was it ?

Ow got a new item (review coming out next week) and orgasm with it. I'm sure she had sexual pleasure. And in the past used a fav toy several days in a row. I'm positive she would not do it just for the physical aspect.
03/31/2016
Contributor: Inquisitor Inquisitor
Isn't sexual pleasure part of the physical experience?

Personally, I'd say that solo masturbation as opposed to masturbation with a partner or in view of a willing voyeur is the physical part.
03/31/2016
Contributor: catt catt
Of course it is true sexual pleasure...many species experience sexual pleasure from masturbation...that's why we still do it...
When it stops working we will stop trying...

I have a new shipment coming for both of us together and separate...
I do hope that they continue to bring us pleasure
04/02/2016
Contributor: DancerKittyKat DancerKittyKat
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Originally posted by Inquisitor
Isn't sexual pleasure part of the physical experience?

Personally, I'd say that solo masturbation as opposed to masturbation with a partner or in view of a willing voyeur is the physical part.
Good point! Sexual pleasure is the feeling we get when we are aroused. This arousal can be mental and/or physical. At least for me, I don't think sexual pleasure is completely separate from the physical or emotional experience.

However, I did hear in a TED talk that a corpse could have an orgasm when a certain spinal reflex was triggered. That would be a purely physical reaction rather than a product or cause of arousal.
04/04/2016
Contributor: Stellar Stellar
Wow, it seems I certainly have been doing something wrong
04/05/2016
Contributor: Inquisitor Inquisitor
Quote:
Originally posted by Stellar
Wow, it seems I certainly have been doing something wrong
Ok, I'll bite. What do you think you are doing "wrong"? As long as no one ends up in the hospital or in pain it can't be all that bad.
04/06/2016
Contributor: RockDoc RockDoc
You can have the emotional connection while masturbating, but it is all in your head. You can think of your partner while doing it and remember special times and when you were together. The emotional component is up to you. You can do it for the physical too, but the emotional depends on your state of mind.
04/07/2016
Contributor: Stellar Stellar
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Originally posted by RockDoc
You can have the emotional connection while masturbating, but it is all in your head. You can think of your partner while doing it and remember special times and when you were together. The emotional component is up to you. You can do it for the ... more
I think my problem is psychological, really, because I have troubles accepting my own sexuality separately to sex itself
04/11/2016
Contributor: Stellar Stellar
Even though I think this discussion is not other, I thought you might like to have something in addition to talk about So hop on to the new discussion here
04/11/2016
Contributor: RobbieVibrates RobbieVibrates
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Originally posted by Stellar
Well, my dear contributors, now that we are quite a bit acquainted with each other's tempers, I believe it's time to go even deeper. Masturbation. A beautiful concept that initially brought us all together in this community. It is out of ... more
mmm, good thought as a guy, masturbation is natural, lol.. letting another do it for 'me' is more enjoyable, for sure.. but I like plugs masturbation so I do a lot alone
05/14/2016
Contributor: RobbieVibrates RobbieVibrates
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Originally posted by Stellar
Wow, it seems I certainly have been doing something wrong
practice makes perfect
05/14/2016
Contributor: RonLee RonLee
Masturbation brings physical and sexual pleasure but no real emotional relief, at least that's how it works for me.
03/08/2017
Contributor: Chey Chey
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Originally posted by Stellar
Well, my dear contributors, now that we are quite a bit acquainted with each other's tempers, I believe it's time to go even deeper. Masturbation. A beautiful concept that initially brought us all together in this community. It is out of ... more
Hope I'm doing this right but I want to learn & be able to do this, masturbation. I am older but have never been with a partner that knows any more than I do. My insecurities make it difficult for me and I shut down when I feel I'm getting close. If this helps explain a little, I never played with myself growing up & I was married to my 2nd husband when I experienced my 1st orgasim. I couldn't believe you could experience that much pleasure. However, I've never been able to have them regularly & I can't remember the last time I did. I need help doing it too & have learned my partner has to be dominate & a little rougher. I also have never had 1 during intercourse. I love good sex & 3 days without it, I'm getting bitchy. I dont have a lot of experience but have a man who says he wants to help me find a way to help me, which would help our love life. Any one know what might help? Appreciate any comments
03/08/2017
Contributor: Chey Chey
Quote:
Originally posted by Stellar
I think my problem is psychological, really, because I have troubles accepting my own sexuality separately to sex itself
Sounds like me
03/08/2017
Contributor: Jmo2280 Jmo2280
Self loving is the best kind of loving
03/16/2017
Contributor: Lena Eden Lena Eden
(EdenFantasys)
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Originally posted by Jmo2280
Self loving is the best kind of loving
You think? IMHO, it really depends on the partner's experience and desire to please
03/17/2017
Contributor: Lvstoplay Lvstoplay
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Originally posted by RonLee
Masturbation brings physical and sexual pleasure but no real emotional relief, at least that's how it works for me.
I agree. The emotional side of things only happens with someone you want to be with and are in love with.
03/18/2017