As a transperson, no, I have a love-hate relationship with my downstairs, I tolerate it for sexual pleasure but I don't want to get that close to it. If I had a dick, that's different! I think I'd try it, but I'd prefer someone else to My partner would never leave me alone, he's been dying to give me a blowjob since we started dating haha
What's the difference between using your fingers or your tongue? Of course I do it, I envy my cat being able to bend over double just to clean himself. That way my hands could remain free for other stimulation.
I don't think I would. I couldn't get in a position to stimulate myself the way I like to (unless I could bend in half and then bend my neck completely the other way, and turn my head 180 degrees...it's just not going to happen!) So I don't think it would do much for me. Part of the big appeal of oral to me is the element of surprise too...so I'd lose that if it were me doing it.
I'd try it, heck I have tried it & come close, but not enough, darn it! If I could do it without strain/pain & have full access to the area? Hell yes, I'd try it, surely like it & continue to do it! I don't think it's any more gross than other forms of masturbation!
If it wasn't difficult and wouldn't cause me pain, heck yes I would! Why not? I don't see how it could be gross! My husband puts his mouth there, I know I'm clean, so it wouldn't bother me in the slightest.